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Reply #255 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:45am
 
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You seemed willing to accept that rape - as in forced sex outside the bounds of where sex is permitted - is recognised in islam - yet funnily enough you have never explained how the relevant hadith makes that distinction.


I never claimed it did. The only person claiming it says something that it does not actually say is you. You do this by picking principles out of thin air.

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No I refuted your claim that islamic law *ONLY* says that sex is a man's right and a woman's duty.


Strawman.

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Please explain to me how it is obvious what the relationship between the victim and perpetrator was. Answer with specific reference to the text of the hadith.


Like I said, it is obvious, just as it is obvious he raped her, even though it does not actually say so.

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And yet a reference to aliens would have been irrelevant to determining who raped who, and what this ruling applies to. A reference to the relationship between the victim and perpetrator would have been pretty relevant to substantiating your otherwise baseless claim regarding who raped who - no?


Sure, if they forsaw that in 1400 years time the culture might have changed to recognise spousal rape, then they would have seen it as relevant.

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The arabic word for illegal intercourse is "zina" {/quote]

No. Instead we have Muhammed saying to behead the man who had intercourse.

I think the arabic text you posted messed with the forum software - I could not quote the rest of the passge.

[quote]Another task for you - explain how convicting a man for having "intercourse" (going by the translation provided) - not "illegal intercourse" - on what basis do you conclude that this is only applicable for sex outside marriage (zina) - when there is no mention of the word, and no hint whatsoever that this was *EXCLUSIVELY* a case of (in your words) "sex where sex is not permitted?"


From the broader context - from the rest of Islam.
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Re: does Islam equate sex and rape?
Reply #256 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:48am
 
Once again Gandalf is ignoring the key issues:

freediver wrote on Aug 31st, 2013 at 12:58pm:
Gandalf, the Islamic punishment for rape obviously only applies where Islam recognises that a rape has occurred. Insisting that the verse you cite is a general prohibition on rape in all contexts is purely wishful thinking. There are plenty of reasons to think that Islam does not recognise rape and does not recognise the need for consent in the context of sex that is permitted. You have presented no good reasons to think otherwise. Imposing modern concepts of consent, rape, "no means no" etc to a barbaric culture where these concepts are completely alien is a huge ask. Insisting that this happened without anyone noticing it and writing it down, or needing to write it down, is just ludicrous.

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See above answer. Again, ordering the humane treatment of slaves doesn't make sense if at the same time it allows the rape of slaves.


It depends what you mean by humane. Just as it depends what you mean by rape. I have seen verses that talk about beating slaves and wives as if it is permitted.

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Correct - I'm glad you are finally beginning to understand it. Ending an age-old practice is best done with a phased approach - not a sudden outright ban.


Can you elaborate please? By "phased approach" do you mean "never talking about it"? Did Muhammed somehow trick his followers into adopting this law without them ever realising that a major change in their culture had taken place?

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I have already argued that this is not the case


Not very strongly. You even conceded that the orthodox view permits wife beating.

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Welcome to islamic law. It the same case for a whole heap of restrictions in islam. For anyone with an ounce of common sense, it makes perfect sense.


Can you give some examples? So far the only example you have given is that a general prohibition on alcohol should be interpretted as a general prohibition on alcohol. This is pretty much the opposite of the principle you are applying.

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Can I now apply your same logic and argue that if (as you keep insisting) the man was convicted for unlawful sex, and not rape


That is not my argument. My argument is that the punishment is identical to that for unlawful sex, and that the precedent only applies where Islam recognises rape.   

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To ensure that every possible rape scenario is not left out.


So you interpret it that way because you want to interpret it that way? What if an Islamic lawyer decides he does want to leave out the scenario of rape in the context where sex is permitted. What makes your interpretation any more valid than his?

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Re: does Islam equate sex and rape?
Reply #257 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 12:02pm
 
freediver wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:45am:
I never claimed it did. The only person claiming it says something that it does not actually say is you. You do this by picking principles out of thin air.


Cut the crap FD - your whole point has been that the hadith is only applicable for "unlawful" sex outside marriage. You said in your last post that it was "obvious" that this was the case. Yet you are still unable to point me to the evidence that indicates this. You my friend are the one picking principles out of thin air. I'm merely going by what the hadith actually says - not what I imagine it says.

freediver wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:45am:
Strawman.


What??

Your argument was that a ban on marital rape cannot be inferred from the rape hadith because it flies against the recurring theme in the quran that sex is the man's right and the woman's duty. Correct?
I am directly refuting that claim - by pointing out that this "right" is not the exclusive domain of the husband - and that the "duty" is not the exclusive domain of the wife. I refute this by pointing to the islamic texts that state that this "right" is granted to the wife as well, and the "duty" is on the husband as well. When this mutuality in marriage is understood, your case that it is only the man who has rights over the woman, and that it is only the woman who has a duty to fulfill vis-a-vis sexual matters, comes tumbling down.

Please understand the difference between a strawman and demolishing the actual case you are making.

freediver wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:45am:
Like I said, it is obvious, just as it is obvious he raped her, even though it does not actually say so.


Grin Only it does say she was raped - in its very specific description. Its either a rape or a false accusation of rape - but that is a separate matter. Either way, the prophet was happy to accept her word that it was rape. Or are you going to argue that the woman saying to the group of men, and later the prophet "this man did such and such to me" means "this man had consensual sexual intercourse with me - please stone me".

It does not say what the relationship between the two was. You are right for once - it is obvious that it is rape for the reasons given above - but it is not obvious what the relationship the rapist was to the victim - because it says nothing about it.

freediver wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:45am:
From the broader context - from the rest of Islam.


Ah yes - the "sex is a man's right and a woman's duty" schtick again is it?  Cheesy Do you have any other "broader contexts" that haven't already been smashed to pieces?
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Re: does Islam equate sex and rape?
Reply #258 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 12:05pm
 
freediver wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:48am:
Once again Gandalf is ignoring the key issues:


No I deliberately stuck to the key issues, and ignored the stupid irrelevant thought bubbles.
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Reply #259 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 12:26pm
 
So the issue of how Muhammed managed to criminalise spousal rape, the rape of slaves and women caught in battle, without ever actually mentioning it, is irrelevant to this thread?
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Re: does Islam equate sex and rape?
Reply #260 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 12:41pm
 
freediver wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 12:26pm:
So the issue of how Muhammed managed to criminalise spousal rape, the rape of slaves and women caught in battle, without ever actually mentioning it, is irrelevant to this thread?


He did mention it. Its mentioned in a hadith. I've only referenced this about a million times.
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Reply #261 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 12:57pm
 
Which hadith mentions spousal rape?
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Reply #262 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 1:20pm
 
which hadith mentions non-spousal rape FD?
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Reply #263 - Sep 1st, 2013 at 3:11pm
 
Ah, my friends, it is only rape if your old boy spouse resists, no?

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Reply #264 - Sep 2nd, 2013 at 5:17pm
 
polite_gandalf wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 10:25am:
Baronvonrort wrote on Aug 31st, 2013 at 4:57pm:
There is nothing in the Quran that forbids rape, if we look at books that came over 200 years after the Quran we find some verses yet they are not from allah they are from men with flaws who passed down sayings of the prophet like a series of chinese whispers for over 200 years before someone other than allah put them in a book.


Grin Grin Thats just hillarious Baron. Does this mean you are going to stop using hadeeth to "prove" your points about the evilness of islam?

No I didn't think so.


Muslims like to claim the Quran has never been corrupted by man which makes it unique compared to the buy-bull or jewish fairy tales.
I dont give allah a F for the Quran he deserves an I for incomplete, if Islam was perfected as allah claimed in 5/3 then why do muslims need the hadith?
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This is the book about which there is no doubt, a guidance for those conscious of allah.
www.quran.com/2/2


Muslims realised the Quran was incomplete yet if they added verses to it that would make them hypocrites for claiming the Quran has never been corrupted as they criticse the jews and christians for this, so they came up with a new book/books called the hadith to supplement the Quran and sidestep the issue of why Allah made an incomplete book with the Quran.


So what about the Quran only muslims like Hamza Yusef from the USA who reject the hadith because it is man made unlike God's book, where do they get their rules for rape/prayer/stoning /apostasy etc as these are not in the Quran?

Umar flogged a male slave and exiled him for rape, a lifetime of slavery to some muslim owner or rape one of the girls from the captured war booty get 100 lashes and exiled, does that mean as part of the punishment for rape he was no longer considered a slave?
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Reply #265 - Sep 2nd, 2013 at 9:47pm
 
The issues Gandalf still refuses to even acknowledge.

freediver wrote on Sep 1st, 2013 at 11:48am:
Once again Gandalf is ignoring the key issues:

freediver wrote on Aug 31st, 2013 at 12:58pm:
Gandalf, the Islamic punishment for rape obviously only applies where Islam recognises that a rape has occurred. Insisting that the verse you cite is a general prohibition on rape in all contexts is purely wishful thinking. There are plenty of reasons to think that Islam does not recognise rape and does not recognise the need for consent in the context of sex that is permitted. You have presented no good reasons to think otherwise. Imposing modern concepts of consent, rape, "no means no" etc to a barbaric culture where these concepts are completely alien is a huge ask. Insisting that this happened without anyone noticing it and writing it down, or needing to write it down, is just ludicrous.

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See above answer. Again, ordering the humane treatment of slaves doesn't make sense if at the same time it allows the rape of slaves.


It depends what you mean by humane. Just as it depends what you mean by rape. I have seen verses that talk about beating slaves and wives as if it is permitted.

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Correct - I'm glad you are finally beginning to understand it. Ending an age-old practice is best done with a phased approach - not a sudden outright ban.


Can you elaborate please? By "phased approach" do you mean "never talking about it"? Did Muhammed somehow trick his followers into adopting this law without them ever realising that a major change in their culture had taken place?

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I have already argued that this is not the case


Not very strongly. You even conceded that the orthodox view permits wife beating.

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Welcome to islamic law. It the same case for a whole heap of restrictions in islam. For anyone with an ounce of common sense, it makes perfect sense.


Can you give some examples? So far the only example you have given is that a general prohibition on alcohol should be interpretted as a general prohibition on alcohol. This is pretty much the opposite of the principle you are applying.

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Can I now apply your same logic and argue that if (as you keep insisting) the man was convicted for unlawful sex, and not rape


That is not my argument. My argument is that the punishment is identical to that for unlawful sex, and that the precedent only applies where Islam recognises rape.   

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To ensure that every possible rape scenario is not left out.


So you interpret it that way because you want to interpret it that way? What if an Islamic lawyer decides he does want to leave out the scenario of rape in the context where sex is permitted. What makes your interpretation any more valid than his?



Don't you think this is getting a little silly Gandalf? Do you really expect people to believe you are acting "honestly and in good faith" when you insist there is no need to explain how Muhammed achieved these cultural changes without ever talking about them? Do you expect people to believe that Arabs have considered spousal rape and the rape of slaves to be the same as rape in other contexts since before Muhammed's time?
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Reply #266 - Sep 3rd, 2013 at 8:35am
 
freediver wrote on Sep 2nd, 2013 at 9:47pm:
Do you expect people to believe that Arabs have considered spousal rape and the rape of slaves to be the same as rape in other contexts since before Muhammed's time?


Probably not. Hence the whole (new) concept of marriage being about mutual support and love introduced by Muhammad and the quran.
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Reply #267 - Sep 3rd, 2013 at 9:16am
 
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Probably not. Hence the whole (new) concept of marriage being about mutual support and love introduced by Muhammad and the quran.



Well I agree it certainly was a new and unusual concept of love 

Tabari IX:113 “Allah permits you to shut them in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing. Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Qur’an.”

qur'an4.34 : Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, lastly beat them ; but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all)[/

Tabari I:280 “Allah said, ‘It is My obligation to make Eve bleed once every month as she made this tree bleed. I must also make Eve stupid, although I created her intelligent.’ Because Allah afflicted Eve, all of the women of this world menstruate and are stupid.”


Qur’an 4:11 “Allah directs you in regard of your Children’s (inheritance): to the male, a portion equal to that of two females…. These are settled portions ordained by Allah.”

Bukhari:V1B22N28 “The Prophet said: ‘I was shown the Hell Fire and the majority of its dwellers were women who are disbelievers or ungrateful.’ When asked what they were ungrateful for, the Prophet answered, ‘All the favors done for them by their husbands.’”

Muslim:B1N142 “‘O womenfolk, you should ask for forgiveness for I saw you in bulk amongst the dwellers of Hell.’ A wise lady said: Why is it, Allah’s Apostle, that women comprise the bulk of the inhabitants of Hell? The Prophet observed: ‘You curse too much and are ungrateful to your spouses. You lack common sense, fail in religion and rob the wisdom of the wise.’ Upon this the woman remarked: What is wrong with our common sense? The Prophet replied, ‘Your lack of common sense can be determined from the fact that the evidence of two women is equal to one man. That is a proof.’”

Qur’an 4:43 “Believers, approach not prayers with a mind befogged or intoxicated until you understand what you utter. Nor when you are polluted, until after you have bathed. If you are ill, or on a journey, or come from answering the call of nature, or you have touched a woman, and you find no water, then take for yourselves clean dirt, and rub your faces and hands. Lo! Allah is Benign, Forgiving.”

Bukhari:V4B55N547 “The Prophet said, ‘But for the Israelis, meat would not decay, and if it were not for Eve, wives would never betray their husbands.’”

Qur’an 4:15 “If any of your women are guilty of lewdness, take the evidence of four witnesses from amongst you against them; if they testify, confine them to houses until death [by starvation] claims them.”

Bukhari:V3B48N826 “The Prophet said, ‘Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?’ The women said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind.’”

Ishaq:584 “Tell the men with you who have wives: [/b]never trust a woman[/b].”

Ishaq:185 “In hell I saw women hanging by their breasts. They had fathered bastards.”

Qur’an 24:33 “Force not your slave-girls to whoredom (prostitution) if they desire chastity, that you may seek enjoyment of this life. But if anyone forces them, then after such compulsion, Allah is oft-forgiving.”

Ishaq:469 “The Apostle said, ‘Every wailing woman lies except those who wept for Sa’d.’”

Ishaq:496 “Ask the slave girl; she will tell you the truth.’ So the Apostle called Burayra to ask her. Ali got up and gave her a violent beating first, saying, ‘Tell the Apostle the truth.’”

Qur’an 24:6 “And for those who launch a charge against their wives, accusing them, but have no witnesses or evidence, except themselves; let the testimony of one of them be four testimonies, (swearing four times) by Allah that he is the one speaking the truth.”

Tell women: they are stupid, they are liars, cannot be trusted, are the majority of people in hell, their testimony is worth less than a man, beat them etc. etc. certainly was an innovative approach to love and support.
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Reply #268 - Sep 3rd, 2013 at 12:19pm
 
polite_gandalf wrote on Sep 3rd, 2013 at 8:35am:
freediver wrote on Sep 2nd, 2013 at 9:47pm:
Do you expect people to believe that Arabs have considered spousal rape and the rape of slaves to be the same as rape in other contexts since before Muhammed's time?


Probably not. Hence the whole (new) concept of marriage being about mutual support and love introduced by Muhammad and the quran.


So the concept of love in marriage did not even exist before Muhammed?

And husbands and wives did not support each other?

What about all the "slaves that you can have sex with"?

According to Falah Islam rejects modern concepts of love, in particular people falling in love prior to getting married, and supports arranged marriage.
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Reply #269 - Sep 3rd, 2013 at 12:27pm
 
quoting 24:6 without quoting the whole passage 24:6-9 again eh moses.

Is that the definition of dishonesty? I mean its not as if you don't know about 24:8 - I pointed it out to you last time.

Quran on amicability in marriage:

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And if a woman fears from her husband contempt or evasion, there is no sin upon them if they make terms of settlement between them - and settlement is best.

4:128

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And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.

30:21

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And Allah has made for you your mates of your own nature, and made for you, out of them, sons and daughters and grandchildren, and provided for you sustenance of the best

16:72

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It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with her.

7:189

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They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.

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