Setanta wrote on Sep 23
rd, 2026 at 1:31am:
Quote:There’s a movement with mum’s staying home and doing all the old fashioned stuff being the old fashioned wife … I forgot the acronym they use to describe themselves, but how in this day and age is a single income earner going to afford to pay for clothes, petrol, food, bills, schooling, rent or home repayments? And an occasional treat.
You can thank feminism and dual incomes for that. You can't double household income and not expect inflation to eat that back to the equivalent of one income. Supply and demand, basic economics.
Perhaps there’s more to that.
It’s had me pondering.
In my time, it was chosen I would be full time mum at home, I did all the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundering, bookkeeping and paying bills, banking, running the kids to and from playgroups, kindergartens, school, and medical and dental appointments, and to all their after school sport activity.
I was very astute at budgeting too. I saved on childcare which I recall started coming in and working mums were spending all their earnings on the weekly childcare!
If hubby needed car parts I would go shop for them for best price. Yes with naughty little toddlers with me
But prices/inflation is so high now, one income can’t be enough. And as for fuel prices! Enough said!
Gym and mobile phones and internet and Netflix were non existent for me as a young parent, so there’s a savings right there!
Even though there is a trend for one of the mums or dads to be stay-at-home full time parent while the other works, there can’t be much left for holidays, cruises, sporting events etc
This exorbitant rise to cost of living is worse than ever!
What I recall….how other working women would look down on women like us full time mums, with a stupid sarco way asking “Do you wooork”
I reply “no! I do nothing!”
Even now I get asked what I do, I say “As little as possible!”
I hated that judgemental time.
Another mum I admired was also taking in foster care for babies/young children.
She had a badge “Every mother is a working mother”
Anyway. I read a lot of books and studied a lot at that time.
I got to understand finances very well and about real estate.
But that’s another story.