freediver wrote on Dec 26
th, 2016 at 9:59am:
____ wrote on Dec 26
th, 2016 at 9:33am:
freediver wrote on Dec 26
th, 2016 at 9:29am:
____ wrote on Dec 26
th, 2016 at 9:12am:
kl
Because I can.
It almost sounds like you are claiming to be more Christian than Christians.
'almost' ... have no conviction in your opinion?
Do you think I should have more conviction in your opinion?
The Interrogator (I refer to this Control Drama as the “Critic”)
The Interrogator is the one that asks so many questions, with an underlying goal of fault finding. For those who’ve ever been exposed to a parole, probation, or police investigation, it’s that kind of feeling. To be thought of as guilty by someone who is determined to needle the truth out of you, no matter what. However, sometimes the questioner is not so much determined to find us guilty as to just find out what we’ve been doing lately. And then comes the critical, “well, what did you do that for?” or “What were you thinking?” (with the implication that you obviously weren’t thinking very well, or you wouldn’t have made that choice). The critic is the one who comes to your home with a white glove and checks the closets with no business going in there. The critics feel so uncomfortable with themselves, they are often looking for some way to see how you don’t measure up well either. If you’ve been asked “Can’t you be satisfied with anything?” this might be a piece of evidence that you were in your Interrogator/Critic mode.
Guilty… Again. And again I have to say, that I know it’s pretty uncomfortable to see ourselves as an Interrogator or Critic, but again, recognizing our own control drama tendencies is a huge step towards learning to step out of it.
http://www.celestinevision.com/2015/05/spirituality/struggle-power-control-drama...If you have something actually on the thread topic, happy to debate that.
Sorry if I hurt your feelings.