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Re: 'Domestic Violence Awareness' - does anyone know
Reply #15 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:11am

cods wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 9:54am:

Redmond Neck wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 9:21am:

Naughty Herb!

SLAP!

SLAP!

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why start a thread with the title Domestic Violence.. when really its more about being a wiseguy??..

pretty poor taste.

... nag .... nag .... nag ... nag ...

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Every thread should have a little sweet-and-sour in it to boost the ratings.

So! Codsey ... how about answering the question.

Why are the reasons that prompt a man to slap his wife NEVER mentioned in any report or commentary on the subject?

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Reply #16 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:15am

Lord Herbert wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:11am:

cods wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 9:54am:

Redmond Neck wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 9:21am:

Naughty Herb!

SLAP!

SLAP!

Angry

why start a thread with the title Domestic Violence.. when really its more about being a wiseguy??..

pretty poor taste.

... nag .... nag .... nag ... nag ...

Grin

Every thread should have a little sweet-and-sour in it to boost the ratings.

Really? Because it just looks like you are making fun of DV.

Was that your intention Herb?

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Reply #18 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:20am

mothra wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:15am:

Really? Because it just looks like you are making fun of DV.

Was that your intention Herb?

No.

Would you like to answer some of the questions I've posed in this thread, or would you rather go dancing off into the woods with the pixies as is so often the case with certain individuals hereabouts?

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Reply #19 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:24am

Phemanderac wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:19am:

Herb, there are no reasons that's why, only excuses.

Thank you, Phem - at long last someone has come forward to address the question, and unsurprisingly it's a male.

I don't agree with you about 'excuses'.

Please re-read my earlier post in which I explained that some men can be driven to utter despair by a belligerent and selfish bitch of a wife.

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Reply #20 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:26am

Lord Herbert wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:20am:

mothra wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:15am:

Really? Because it just looks like you are making fun of DV.

Was that your intention Herb?

No.

Would you like to answer some of the questions I've posed in this thread, or would you rather go dancing off into the woods with the pixies as is so often the case with certain individuals hereabouts?

I haven't seen any intelligent questions Herbie, just you taking the piss.

Most offensively may i add.

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Reply #21 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:28am

Lord Herbert wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:24am:

Phemanderac wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:19am:

Herb, there are no reasons that's why, only excuses.

Thank you, Phem - at long last someone has come forward to address the question, and unsurprisingly it's a male.

I don't agree with you about 'excuses'.

Please re-read my earlier post in which I explained that some men can be driven to utter despair by a belligerent and selfish bitch of a wife.

Be driven to whatever you want, hitting another living being is a choice, all too often a choice that is far too easily made. Then we have the cowardly follow up whine about "reasons"....

Bullshit, it's all an excuse.

What keeps you there with the "belligerent and selfish bitch of a wife"? If it's truly that bad a real man would up and leave...

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Reply #22 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:28am

Lord Herbert wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:24am:

Phemanderac wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:19am:

Herb, there are no reasons that's why, only excuses.

Thank you, Phem - at long last someone has come forward to address the question, and unsurprisingly it's a male.

I don't agree with you about 'excuses'.

Please re-read my earlier post in which I explained that some men can be driven to utter despair by a belligerent and selfish bitch of a wife.

A woman is unlikely to "nag" a man who is prone to hit her Herb.

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Reply #23 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:39am

mothra wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:26am:

I haven't seen any intelligent questions Herbie, just you taking the piss.

Most offensively may i add.

Still not willing to play the ball ...

So why don't you remove yourself to another thread and leave this one to those who would like to make a serious contribution.

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Reply #25 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:44am

Phemanderac wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:28am:

Be driven to whatever you want, hitting another living being is a choice, all too often a choice that is far too easily made. Then we have the cowardly follow up whine about "reasons"....

Bullshit, it's all an excuse.

What keeps you there with the "belligerent and selfish bitch of a wife"? If it's truly that bad a real man would up and leave...

Dear o dear o dear ... and Christ wept for His people.

And what if the man has invested YEARS of hard, grinding work to keep up the payments on the mortgage for the house ... with all the while the wife refuses to work even after the kids are old enough to look after themselves?

And what if leaving the home means leaving his children?

And the bitch of a wife makes every excuse to deny him access - and coaches the children to say they don't want to see their father?

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mothra Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 36384 Gender:	Re: 'Domestic Violence Awareness' - does anyone know Reply #26 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:52am Lord Herbert wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:40am: mothra wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:28am: A woman is unlikely to "nag" a man who is prone to hit her Herb. Not at all true. Be aware that I am talking as a witness. So am i. Women who are on the receiving end of DV never "ask for it" Herbie.
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Reply #27 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:57am

Phemanderac wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:28am:

What keeps you there with the "belligerent and selfish bitch of a wife"? If it's truly that bad a real man would up and leave...

.. and leave behind for the taking and raping everything he's slogged away to build and generate, including his children.... come on, Phem... you know that women can leave, get the kids and get the lioness' share of property - a man has to get out with the leavings....

This is one area that truly needs to be addressed, along with this increasing tendency of the majority of women leaving doing so simply because they 'don't feel validated' any more in the marriage. What that means is they are just bored with it and it's a good deal to get out, whereas the man has to take it on the chin and in the guts to get out of abusive situations.

Nothing new there... but it sure needs fixing... YESTERDAY.

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Reply #28 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 12:03pm

Sir Grappler Truth Teller OAM wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:57am:

Phemanderac wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:28am:

What keeps you there with the "belligerent and selfish bitch of a wife"? If it's truly that bad a real man would up and leave...

.. and leave behind for the taking and raping everything he's slogged away to build and generate, including his children.... come on, Phem... you know that women can leave, get the kids and get the lioness' share of property - a man has to get out with the leavings....

This is one area that truly needs to be addressed, along with this increasing tendency of the majority of women leaving doing so simply because they 'don't feel validated' any more in the marriage. What that means is they are just bored with it and it's a good deal to get out, whereas the man has to take it on the chin and in the guts to get out of abusive situations.

Nothing new there... but it sure needs fixing... YESTERDAY.

Or the other likely scenario where the man doesn't pay a cent in child support and leaves the woman to raise and care for the kids while he pisses off with a new woman.

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Reply #29 - Dec 26^th, 2015 at 12:38pm

mothra wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:52am:

Lord Herbert wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:40am:

mothra wrote on Dec 26^th, 2015 at 11:28am:

A woman is unlikely to "nag" a man who is prone to hit her Herb.

Not at all true.

Be aware that I am talking as a witness.