Emma wrote on Aug 8
th, 2011 at 11:58pm:
'Stop trying to justify your addiction by abusing people who want to give their children a fighting chance to make their own informed decisions about drugs when they're old enough to do so'. - Mantra
I apologised already, for my uncalled for remark, but since you wish to continue negativing Pot, I will continue to address your comments..
No - I have no children - BY CHOICE.
Obviously it was meant to be. We have to stop being selfish when we choose to have children and think of their needs and wants before ours.
Quote:Why pity your kids??
Because YOU decide when THEY are old enough to be 'informed'!! When would that be, by the way? 16 ?? Younger??
Got to tell you - that's too late.!! Most kids in today's environment, KNOW more than you do about it.
If you'd bother to read an earlier post - I said my son found out about it at 11 from an adult. Is that young enough?
I've always been open with my children and never kept anything from them - but a parent has to set an example. You can't tell a child that something is bad for his/her health then proceed to use it yourself or expose them to it continuously.
On the other hand when they do find out about it at a very young age - do you condone its use by telling them how great it is and smoke the stuff yourself as an example of its excellence?
Kids need boundaries and parents are the only ones who can set them.
Quote:Your parental advice will not help your kids, will not- has not - given them a fighting chance. BECAUSE??
.... Because your information is not informative, but propagandist. Because YOUR KIDS know this. SO you become irrelevant as a source of wisdom, because YOU DON"T KNOW as much as they do, and they know it, and they wonder what other mis-informed, tho well intended, garbage you have told them. (On a society-wide basis ..this leads -broadly- to mistrust of the Law AND societal norms.).!!
My children saw plenty of potheads while they were growing up including many of the dregs at school who remain dregs today making pot a priority in their life. I didn't have to spout propaganda to them.
They have no distrust of the law or mainstream society - nor should they. Your statement makes no sense whatsoever. It's only the pot smoker with a bad habit who has fear of the law and societal norms.
Quote:They will likely come to understand your position, hopefully, but they may not agree.
Unless of course, you are in an OZ equivalent of the 'Amish' !!!!!!!

Or they see you frequently, and you maintain your 'control' of their views.
YOU MIGHT want to think about it/?? 'cos from comments you have made, I gather your kids aren't 'at home' anymore, and you do not know if they do indulge in Pot , that you've warned them against..

That is sad, but Pot isn't to blame.
HOPE you saw 'CAN of WORMS' tonight. ( Channel 10 -9.30 pm QLD)
One of the questions was -
Would you tell your teenager, that some people smoke Pot just because they enjoy it.??IF you didn't - try and check it out. YOU might learn something.! Of benefit to you.
Good luck best wishes
I didn't bring up a couple of smothered weaklings with no mind of their own. Perhaps if you had children you would know that they learn to determine right from wrong at an early age, but parents have a responsibility to try to lead their children down the most positive path.
I know they indulged in pot socially when they were younger. They told me quite happily and of course I had no power to stop them - but it was only short lived thank goodness as they found their pleasure, health and control wasn't enhanced by this drug - just the opposite.
I'm glad that some of my maternal "propaganda" wasn't in vain and they've learnt that pot just isn't their thing.