cautious connie wrote on Jun 23
rd, 2007 at 7:21am:
What about when the mothers life is at risk?
What about severe deformities.
What sort of punishment would you like to see for those women who spontaneously abort?
I think the mother's interests should definitely be spoken for too in the decision. My comment is that there does not seem to be a defined representative in the abortion decision process to speak for the unborn child- they have no advocate. And I think there should be an advocate for the child involved in the decision.
I don't think a woman should have to die to carry a child to term - apart froma self-defence issue there are also her rights involved and the needs of her other children and people around her.
Severe deformities may mean that the child dies anyway, or they may mean that no prospective adoptive parent would advocate for them.
Of course you are completely correct connie.
There can never be any hard and fast rule in regards to abortion..and the only one who can make this decision one way or another ,is the mother herself. She knows herself and her life circumstances- noone else.
The most correct decision in any case will be made by the mother. Orpahanages are a miserable and last resort option for any baby/ child- they are instituionalised and cold..a childs cannot thrive in that environment.
Conception is the beggining of life..how can it be any other way?
How can we as a society arrange things so that child's voice is heard? Who could represent the child in the abortion decision? A lawyer, judge, psychologist?
I dont think you can connie..the childs voice will be represented by the mother, its the way i should be.
Maybe the way is to educate the female population in schools -sex eduaction etc..to consider these aspects and outcomes as a result of pregnancy. Girls are quite mature at 13-14 now and would be able to consider and debate these issues with a fair degree of understanding and empathy..as they themselves are fast approaching the age to become young mothers themselves without sensible guidance.
Education is most likely the best outcome for giving the unborn a voice. It has to be.