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Reply #15 - May 15^th, 2007 at 9:17pm

A young man needs to feel confident in his sexuality. It can help in all areas of your life.

Whether you have sex, or not, it should be mutually agreed to. If she doesn't feel the same way as you, then you will end up becoming frustrated and angry with her. You are only young, why are you committing yourself to one girl at this stage of your life?

You will hurt her and yourself as well, unless you are honest. There's no point letting her believe that you are committed to the relationship if the "unresolved" side of you is looking at greener pastures.

If you want to be with other girls - do it now. You are at the best age for meeting lots of girls and having fun - so if the fun isn't happening, look somewhere else.

This may sound superficial, but if you feel frustrated now and you end up in a long term relationship with this girl - you will feel even worse a year or so down the track.

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Reply #16 - May 16^th, 2007 at 11:09am

mantra wrote on May 15^th, 2007 at 9:17pm:

A young man needs to feel confident in his sexuality. It can help in all areas of your life.

Whether you have sex, or not, it should be mutually agreed to. If she doesn't feel the same way as you, then you will end up becoming frustrated and angry with her. You are only young, why are you committing yourself to one girl at this stage of your life?

You will hurt her and yourself as well, unless you are honest. There's no point letting her believe that you are committed to the relationship if the "unresolved" side of you is looking at greener pastures.

If you want to be with other girls - do it now. You are at the best age for meeting lots of girls and having fun - so if the fun isn't happening, look somewhere else.

This may sound superficial, but if you feel frustrated now and you end up in a long term relationship with this girl - you will feel even worse a year or so down the track.

Mantra,

You make some good points here...

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Reply #17 - May 16^th, 2007 at 11:13am

ex-member DonaldTrump wrote on May 15^th, 2007 at 7:42pm:

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and Donald, Billy Connolly was spot on.

maybe this girl sees you as having potential as a long term partner and is testing you, which is no good to you right now, of course ,as you need sex.Maybe you both see your coupling as having different outcomes.

She may be in it for the long haul, women can decide very early on if your 'right' or not, its instinctive.

A note to you, females dont subscribe to the veiw that if a guy spends money on her or not, neccessarly entiltes him to receive a payoff. It cause her to feel as though she is being paid for, and there is no loving intent behind this scenario.Its actually insulting to some women.

If a women is so devasteted by your sexiness and charm , a sexy ,wicked smile will do the trick and wont cost you a cent. It IS subjective as I said..

She is waiting for a depth of feeling to evolve as she obviously needs this to make her first 'encounter ' with you special and memorable. Trust her on this. It means she has a high regard for you and the resultant first sexual encounter wont be a disappointment, thats for sure, unless she is a virgin, in which case this would,nt be her fault.

Donald, you must like this girl for you to have spent money and time with her , but if Im wrong and you want a girl to be more in tune with your needs than her own, then you may have to find a girl who is more willing and who's standards are not as high. You are a man you have needs ..find a girl more in tune with you ..

She will develop feelings for you that will result in intimacy, she knows this, but wants the time to be right.

Its depends on if YOU are willing to do the 'hard yards' and be patient. You know your limits.If after more time has lapsed and you have resolved nothing-she may be playing with you and you may need decide if you want to go on with it.

Good luck Donald, its a very frustrating situation and I hope it works out soon.

Cheers. Wink

What makes you think it's me I'm talking about? Tongue

Nah.. yeah.. it's me.

The problem is... I have about two other girls that I'm very sure are after me, and I'm very sure they would have a quick fling with me if I snapped my fingers.

But... there's the moral dilemma to think about.

But man... I'm sooo tempted to go off and cheat though. This girl is heavily frustrating to be with. And I'm really starting to hate these kind of girls who 'only do it for love.' Roll Eyes

Well,

its up to you of course. Only you know how you really feel and if it will work for you.

But -there are plenty of girls out there who would love to be your 'mate' Im sure- so dont get fixated with this girl-enjoy pour life and explore all possibilities.

Be true to yourself thats the main thing.

If you do that you cant go wrong.

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Reply #18 - May 16^th, 2007 at 6:47pm

Haha.

For some reason I knew I'd get a few responses with my last comment.

I guess the most popular answer is... 'be honest with her.' 'There's plenty of other fish in the sea.'

I guess the thing I should do is blackmail her and say, "if I don't get some soon, I'll break up with you." Tongue

The question is... should I sleep with other women while still dating her? Or should I just break up with her officially... being honest.

I like hanging out with her, and I enjoy her company, but I can't help but think if we break up she might never talk with me again. I mainly just wanna use my youth while I still have it, and that's 'doing it a lot.' Tongue

I respect every girl I date, and I really HATE breaking their hearts.

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Reply #20 - May 16^th, 2007 at 10:17pm

I would thoroughly recommend relationship counselling.
I get my car serviced, why not my relationship.
MUCH better, easier, cheaper to get a neutral trained professional in on a problem.
Much much much much better. Much better. Even better than that.
I'm happy to pay for it for you both. Can direct credit it to a counselling service close to you.

As with my posting "Our hearts" in the spirituality forum, your heart knows what is right.
And cheating ain't right.
Even this singlet wearing sprintcyclist knows that, in his heart first, then in his mind.

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Reply #21 - May 18^th, 2007 at 7:35pm

ex-member DonaldTrump wrote on May 16^th, 2007 at 6:47pm:

Haha.

For some reason I knew I'd get a few responses with my last comment.

I guess the most popular answer is... 'be honest with her.' 'There's plenty of other fish in the sea.'

I guess the thing I should do is blackmail her and say, "if I don't get some soon, I'll break up with you." Tongue

The question is... should I sleep with other women while still dating her? Or should I just break up with her officially... being honest.

I like hanging out with her, and I enjoy her company, but I can't help but think if we break up she might never talk with me again. I mainly just wanna use my youth while I still have it, and that's 'doing it a lot.' Tongue

I respect every girl I date, and I really HATE breaking their hearts.

officially, being honest. Thats the best way.

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Reply #22 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 4:14pm

Maybe the guy needs to lift his game and be the man that turns her on, rather than off.
Using any excuse to go root another woman is pretty 'limp' to start with. Why would another woman want a guy who obviously isn't getting his current woman in the mood. Sure sign of a loser.

Maybe he should do Wordles like Aussie? Cheesy

I hear women are coming back from the dead because Aussie is a new man with Wordles.

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Reply #23 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 4:19pm

Jasin wrote on Jun 20^th, 2022 at 4:14pm:

Maybe the guy needs to lift his game and be the man that turns her on, rather than off.
Using any excuse to go root another woman is pretty 'limp' to start with. Why would another woman want a guy who obviously isn't getting his current woman in the mood. Sure sign of a loser.

Maybe he should do Wordles like Aussie? Cheesy

I hear women are coming back from the dead because Aussie is a new man with Wordles.

Christ, this one is from the vaults.

He could leave her if he wants, but cheating is cheating

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Reply #24 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 5:43pm

It could be reality in the US following their supreme court decision to go back to the 1950's.

If the BF was a republican there would be no way that is after all what they have been pushing for so I would say just let them not have it.

If the only real protection from reproduction is abstinence well that is obviously going to be a popular answer. It was the answer for many in the conservatives 1950's.

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Reply #25 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 5:47pm

mantra wrote on May 10^th, 2007 at 9:18pm:

I'll throw my two cents worth in DT - there could be a few reasons.

1. She doesn't believe in sex before marriage.

2. She is using sex as a bait because she wants more out of the relationship.

3. She isn't physically attracted to you.

4. She doesn't like sex.

5. She is getting enough somewhere else

6. She prefers her girl friend.

7. She is using sex to control the relationship.

8. All the above / most of the above.

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Reply #26 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 5:56pm

Jasin wrote on Jun 20^th, 2022 at 4:14pm:

Maybe the guy needs to lift his game and be the man that turns her on, rather than off.
Using any excuse to go root another woman is pretty 'limp' to start with. Why would another woman want a guy who obviously isn't getting his current woman in the mood. Sure sign of a loser.

Ask Stormy Daniels.

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Reply #27 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 6:36pm

Dnarever wrote on Jun 20^th, 2022 at 5:47pm:

mantra wrote on May 10^th, 2007 at 9:18pm:

I'll throw my two cents worth in DT - there could be a few reasons.

1. She doesn't believe in sex before marriage.

2. She is using sex as a bait because she wants more out of the relationship.

3. She isn't physically attracted to you.

4. She doesn't like sex.

5. She is getting enough somewhere else

6. She prefers her girl friend.

7. She is using sex to control the relationship.

8. All the above / most of the above.

Look, it's not complicated. Not happy? Tell her you're leaving

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Reply #28 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 7:28pm

FutureTheLeftWant wrote on Jun 20^th, 2022 at 4:19pm:

Jasin wrote on Jun 20^th, 2022 at 4:14pm:

Maybe the guy needs to lift his game and be the man that turns her on, rather than off.
Using any excuse to go root another woman is pretty 'limp' to start with. Why would another woman want a guy who obviously isn't getting his current woman in the mood. Sure sign of a loser.

Maybe he should do Wordles like Aussie? Cheesy

I hear women are coming back from the dead because Aussie is a new man with Wordles.

Christ, this one is from the vaults.

He could leave her if he wants, but cheating is cheating

jasion is an expert in cheating, it's why his wife left him. He is the loser he described

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Reply #29 - Jun 20^th, 2022 at 9:25pm

greggerypeccary wrote on Jun 20^th, 2022 at 5:56pm:

Jasin wrote on Jun 20^th, 2022 at 4:14pm:

Maybe the guy needs to lift his game and be the man that turns her on, rather than off.
Using any excuse to go root another woman is pretty 'limp' to start with. Why would another woman want a guy who obviously isn't getting his current woman in the mood. Sure sign of a loser.

Ask Stormy Daniels.

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USD 130,000 for 60 seconds of work with a HAPPY ENDING for Donald. Stormy is a keeper!

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