Did you marry the girl next door?
That is, the financially stronger relationships, but sexually weaker (is: no kids)
Did you marry the girl across the road (playing Frogger with the traffic)
That is, sexually stronger, financially weaker.
Did you get dating and marry the girl a block away for the best of both worlds but to a lesser extent for comfortability but it was a long shot challenge that took a lot of dating.
Or did you marry the girl from another country that didn't speak your language but you needed to feel cultured and have someone racially different to you so no chance of inbreeding.
Ladies. This applies to you too.

With this said.
Were you happy with your choice?
Did it work out?
Default question: Did you experience all of the above but not marry because you couldn't make up your mind?