Sophia
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Armchair_Politician wrote on Sep 13 th, 2025 at 2:07pm: greggerypeccary wrote on Sep 13 th, 2025 at 1:36pm: Leroy wrote on Sep 13 th, 2025 at 1:31pm: Sophia wrote on Sep 13 th, 2025 at 1:21pm: Armchair_Politician wrote on Sep 13 th, 2025 at 12:11pm: From a female perspective, I see her as composed rather than contrived. She’s still in shock and feelings can numb. One of the stages. Having it all written in front of her to read helps to focus. I recall when needing to get up to talk in front of everyone after each of my parents died, I took 4 Panadols to cope through it, helped to soften the grief so to do a better speech. She has lost her husband and her childrens father that she loved dearly, people who are incapable of empathy (psychopaths) will take the opportunity add to her pain. Well, I'm sure she loves his real estate portfolio and his money. Turning Point USA CEO and co-founder Charlie Kirk once said, "I can't stand the word empathy, actually. I think empathy is a made-up, new age term that — it does a lot of damage." Who stands behind a podium to speak about their dead husband??? At the present moment, she has a lot of support all around her, all top nogs too. Wants to do her late husband proud. It’s the time to do so, I’m sure she’s advised, whilst the need is still hot. Once this news is stale and old, her speech wouldn’t have the same oomph. It’s the sort of thing that reminds me of hearing of death of loved one, to having many come around and be supportive, getting funeral plans ready and so many people around that keeps one’s spirits lifted to cope and get through it. And then….as usual, afterwards, it’s “everyone gets on with life” and you feel the real grief, more alone with it, crying more when no one’s looking. And no one wants to hear of your grief over and over because they would like you to move on. And grief goes through these stages, and it takes time for each stage.
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