Sophia wrote on Oct 15
th, 2025 at 5:48pm:
I’m really pleased to have that little knowledge of doing something in case of any attack. I’m not one to suffer bystander effect.
It’s like I go in fast motion and everyone else is in slo mo. I get very loud and bossy when things are in emergency mode. It’s like people need directing. My daughter says the psycho part comes out in me in fight or flight mode

and that can’t be a bad thing…when needed for courage.
It’s my upbringing….I was I fight or flight mode a lot…not a good thing then as when father drank too much…well…lucky my younger brother by 5 years would run and hide but I didn’t.
Because of my hearing problem, I’ve developed more awareness visually, for attitudes, and predicting movement.
And yes, aiming for the hands, wrists, fingers is exactly how I envisioned it.
You sound quite an interesting person Mr. B. Know a lot of stuff.
Thanks for sharing.
Hanbo is my favourite wooden weapon. I do have a wooden practice sword which some have used on home invaders with excellent non lethal results.
If they try to kick you jam the pointy end into shins or top of foot.
A Renshi 4th Dan gave me a rubber knife in class for a demonstration he threw a front kick at me i stepped back at 45 deg like footwork in picture and slashed right down his leg. He smiled bowed and that was that.
If you have a weapon attack the arm or leg they stick out keep out of range so they can't hit you
I worked as a bouncer for Samurai Security when i was 18
If you ever sneak up on someone don't look at them look past them.
Have you ever been somewhere and sensed someone is looking at you turned around and there was someone checking you out?
That is why you don't focus on someone while sneaking up on them.