mothra wrote on Nov 13
th, 2024 at 10:17am:
MeisterEckhart wrote on Nov 13
th, 2024 at 10:01am:
Sophia wrote on Nov 13
th, 2024 at 9:57am:
Am I a cynical person?
Not all the time

Only sometimes… because the way this world is… we need to be cynical to protect ourselves from all sorts of bs/scams/ etc
We just have to know when to turn on our cynicism when there’s a call for it.
I guess the older I get, I get less ripped off or conned because I’ve developed a healthy mistrust
And has been statistically proven - that scams have a higher success rate the younger the target. Boomers are the least likely to be scammed than Millennials and Zoomers.
Depends entirely on the scam.
Sadly true, the most obvious ones most of us know…. like short prank missed unknown phone calls … expecting us to ring back … I block it, then delete.
Then there’s some unknown numbers ringing which could be legit… do I answer it? Nope!
I say… if it’s important … I have my message saying “please leave a message”
The ones that do… I listen and then know it’s from something like the reception at specialist about changing appointments, or the Vic govt electric heat bank special to replace the gas hws I’m applying for…
Then I call back.
Then there’s some I’ve been scammed with a legit website… and lost $80 recently…
Now I’m more cynical about anything to buy online… over last 5 years caught twice … but not a lot of money lost I can’t get over…
it’s the inconvenience of cancelling the credit card for a new one.I think twice before buying anything now.
I’ve lost interest buying online because I have lost trust.
Best to go shopping in shops I can walk into.
And maybe it’s not just being a tad cynical… I’m getting paranoid!
I check my banking every day!
I hear how even experts have been scammed! And a few elderly too… more so lonely, or widowed or elderly that have been brought up on trust, good will and a handshake deal.
It's a debit card that functions like a Visa card.
Brilliant for overseas travel, too.