Thanks all, there are some good comments there.
We have gone cool on $80K to spend on one area of our house. It'ld be really nice but we could not retrieve any of that money at a later date if need be.
Not sure if the house would be worth another $100K with an $80K upgrade on the kitchen/dining room.
I am not interested in putting an a kitchen myself.
I like to use experts who have installed 50+ kitchens before and give me a 10 year guarantee.
Their work will be better than mine.
Interestingly a kitchen shop contacted me, said they have a 50% off cabinetry for a limited time. Prob to the financial year.
Cabinetry is the big ticket item for a kitchen, so maybe get a new kitchen from them. Similar in layout to the old one. The existing layout is pretty much ideal ofr the area. Add a few 'new' ideas.
I really like the marble look laminate, very taken with it.
https://www.laminex.com.au/article/seaside-luxury-apartment-design-in-palm-beach Another thing you can do is visit kitchen showrooms, independent cabinet makers work best, find a kitchen that is similar in size to yours, that you like, and see if they'll give you a good price on the display model. It's still a new kitchen that's only been a shop display, and they'll adjust it to fit perfectly into your space when they install it.
My old man used to do this when he was renovating rentals for his clients and he'd get full kitchens for peanuts. Cabinet makers need to update their displays with the latest and selling you the old display is better then throwing it away.