philperth2010 wrote on Mar 31
st, 2024 at 4:43pm:
Gnads wrote on Mar 31
st, 2024 at 8:47am:
You wankers are defending the abuse and deflecting to save your two faces....Where have any of you right wing arseholes
condemned the comments dickhead???
condemning the comments is easy and done just to make the condemning person feel virtuous and superior whilst putting in zero effort
in effect, this sort of virtue signalling is fairly gross to me and harmful
it achieves nothing for eddies kids and it makes the action all about YOU
its ego driven (by the virtue signaller) who uses the injured party to prop up their own frail ego
mentoring kids (on the other hand) requires real sweat and grind
it requires effort
eddie can go and join all the virtue signallers if he wants
easy work
or he can put in the hard yards and use this as a teaching moment
engage with the kids that the world is a tough place inhabited by pricks and that we (the betts family) dont engage with these negative emotions
we dont sook and play the victim. 'we dont give away our power
he could take the kids to martial arts and teach them to whip ass
he could set an example of a guy with true resilience who couldnt give a f##k about what losers say
he could write
"sticks and stones may Break my bones but names will never hurt me "
on the family whiteboard
he could make his kids see that everything is an opportunity to build resilience
this would be the path of the superior man
he could remind his kids that you would have to be some sort of loser to waste your day driving around picking on kids who think you are a joke
its time to stop the victim olympics because, guess what, you only win the gold medal if you are the biggest victim . you win by losing
this is called the boooby prize