mothra wrote on Dec 20
th, 2022 at 8:57am:
Frank wrote on Dec 20
th, 2022 at 8:49am:
Lisa Jones wrote on Dec 19
th, 2022 at 10:08pm:
Continued ...
Along with the kissing and touching, Vickery also made “unwelcome sexual advances” and deployed sexualised poetry, he said.
Vickery reportedly claimed he fell in love with one of the women, writing to her in an email at her new workplace that “if falling in love with you was and remains a crime, I am guilty”.
He outed himself as the judge involved in the accusations on his website in February, describing himself as having a “heavy heart”.
Had he possessed sufficient awareness about his behaviour he would have, without hesitation, altered it, he said.
“I extend my sincere apologies to both (women) for any distress unknowingly caused,” he said, adding that they deserved respect for their courage in coming forward.
However, he said the report had “serious shortcomings” and the findings were not legally binding.
Vickery was a judge for a decade from 2008.
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Fj4Ixf0X0AAP_b5?.jpg Yes of course. It's women's fault for not being resilient enough.
Who's blaming men? That would be frowned upon entirely.
Yes that’s the path it’s going by the looks.
I mean, how dare we females wear lovely clothing or even a bit glam/sexy, makeup and jewellery?
Is it any wonder so many dress manly/butch/dull looking to not bring attention to themselves?
That quote by Ms Lumley…. I understand her generations’ mentality… I’m within a decade not far behind hers.
Yes we females had to be tougher/resilient and put up with… we had no choice, we felt no one was on side with us.
We were not allowed into pubs either. Only men could apply for a loan. Etc
Men had so many privileges back then… got away with a lot!
Women had to know their place otherwise many were beaten.
Not all… but that’s the way it was.
Sexism was rife…. The amount of it I had to put up with while growing up was very puzzling to me, I developed at a very early age… and I hated the attention … attention I never actively sought.
It made me wish I were born male.
Fast forward to this day and age…. I see how so many sexual harassment cases are brought forward from past… because nothing could be done back then… whereas now there is more awareness.
I did wonder why… 20 or so years later it’s brought up….
But….is it this compensation/payout that that’s driving some cases to come forward from past?
I see in these modern times that males can be victims too…. Some girls can be unscrupulous… I know this for a fact.