Harry loves her.
The Royal 'Firm' doesn't for many reasons and wanted her out.
Harry made the right decision: love and the responsibility of being a 'Man' about the whole thing.
If they stayed in royalty, with the 'threats' of no security to be given. Chances are they would have been killed in a car crash in a tunnel somewhere - kids as well this time.
How could she 'conform' to the Royalty Firm's wishes, when anything she did was not good enough?
Do you work a job where they tell you you're not good enough all the time? If you do - you're an idiot.
The Media is afraid of Harry and Megs becoming more popular than William and Kate now and still put out the propaganda of Megs trying to destroy the Royalty.
The British Media looking like North Korean propaganda.
They would have ordered Megan to scrub her kids with bleach.
Such a primitive archaic establishment.
The Queen loves Megan. That's good enough for me.