cods wrote on Jun 2
nd, 2019 at 11:02am:
Gnads wrote on Jun 2
nd, 2019 at 10:47am:
PZ547 wrote on Jun 2
nd, 2019 at 10:22am:
Gnads wrote on Jun 2
nd, 2019 at 9:46am:
When my daughter was 14 she was being influenced by a girl friend with a reputation for being wild, jumping out of the window at midnight & sneeking off to see young men 6 & 7 years older.
And despite all the warnings given her she got tangled up with a 21 yr old no hoper.
I went to the Police to seek assistance as I considered his actions "carnal knowledge".
I was advised that bringing a case would be difficult as my daughter may become a hostile witness as she had consented. (she had got the guilts and told her mother and I.)
They told me I should just pay him a visit ... but not punch him in the face to leave visible marks.
I thought that was pretty piss poor on their behalf.
None the less over the next few months I hounded that bastard out of the neighborhood.
He could run faster than I ... but I went close a couple of times.
I've never forgotten what that bastard did to my little girl .................. and I'll never understand why & what a 21 yr old had in common with a 14 yr old immature girl .......
other than a sick sexual conquest thing that some arseholes had at the time .....
called scoring a baldy fork.
Sorry to hear this
Hope things are going well in your family now
Was a long time ago now ..... 24 years ago.
I used it as an example of how difficult it is to define some of these occurrences ....
for me it was as good as a rape ... he being an adult & she a minor.
but she consented .... and the coppers were indifferent.
I know what can happened when girls who are physically mature and lie about their age .... then cry foul after consent ....
a couple of my mates were in court in the mid 70's on carnal knowledge charges and they were 4 to 6 years older than me.
I understand that its coming from a parent of a girl...
tell me gnads do you think we are dealing with this problem...[it isnt a cops problem]
men thinking its ok to rape.. or take what isnt theirs to take...because !!! well I dont know why?...you say that was 24 years ago and not much has changed has it?....laws maybe but not attitude.....I mean we now have date rape.. drugging the victim...we even have videos of the actions and posted on utube....like a trophy....no shame at all...
our footballers can attest to that.

it does appear to be a male thing....
men, most definitely should NOT think its ok to rape
men, with testosterone , are always going to seek out sex.
thats nothing to be ashamed of or to apologise for.
but the healthy way is to be an emotionally mastered man, who has a lot of good emotions to offer the girl. ie, you contribute to the girl and she gets to "take" from your store of positive fun emotions.
but most men nowadays have it backwards, they have been taught that taking is good and taking is what you do. they dont see any role models of people who contribute first. all they see are takers.
they dont understand that if you give first, if you contribute a ton of value, then women will want to give back. and the more "non-needy" you are, the more you will recieve in return.
its exactly the same message i try to get thru to whiteknight.
always whining about how you need to "take more" is just disgusting to an employer and whining about how you need to "take sex from a girls" is disgusting to a girl.
you cant 'take' anything from anyone.
why should you!!!.
that woman wants quality kids , she doesnt want little butt hurt cry baby kids who just want to "take" from her.
when you contribute and have fun and ask for nothing in return, the panties drop.
sorry to put it crudely but thats the truth.
men are in deep sh**t nowdays because society does not teach that message.
society teaches you that you get ahead by taking.
wrong.
and if a young man can understand the method with women, he has a plan for every aspect of his life.
if he can understand that emotional mastery, giving first . asking for nothing in return, leading people who want to be led is the method for the bedroom, this is also the method for the boardroom.
if you crush it in one, you crush it in another.
but expecting young men with no experience, to have mastered this without any guidance or role models, is insane.
its never going to happen.
i