He was horny.  The girl he wanted wasn't available.  He cosied up with a girl who said she was 17.  She was cold.  He put his coat around her.  She touched his leg.  He digitally raped her

She went to lie down. He went to tie one on.

He returned to where she was to get his shirt/coat back from her  Her girlfriend was reading unspoken messages and stuck around to protect her friend

The alleged victim sent her friend away.  Said she wanted to 'talk' to the man who'd recently digitally raped her

??

wanted to talk to him?  To tell him off -- which can be done in two seconds with a sharp 'Buzz off, I'm telling on you !'

but no, she wanted to 'talk' to him
alone

he regarded all that as an invitation.  Most men would

afterwards, possibly sobering up and scared she might be pregnant and what would people say, particularly mum and dad

she put it around that he'd raped her

The court sort of granted her post-virgin victim status

and I'm sure mum, dad, other family and a few friends will go along with that, as will the alleged victim

The guy's life has taken a decided downward turn simply because his hormones correctly read the message her hormones were sending him

I wouldn't be surprised if she writes to him in prison

PZ547 wrote on Jun 1^st, 2019 at 6:18pm:



bullshit. I certainly wouldn't .... shows just what sort of 'man' (and I use the term loosely) you are

Gordon wrote on Jun 1^st, 2019 at 4:34pm:


He wants you to rape him, Gordon.

Laugh till you cry wrote on Jun 1^st, 2019 at 3:33pm:


Shaddup you - or I'll come down that link an' rip yer bloody arms orf...

cods wrote on Jun 1^st, 2019 at 7:00pm:



I dreaded returning to find a righteous dummy spit from you, Cods.  But I'm not a coward, so here I am

You must have forgotten your youth.  Is that why you can't see what's blatantly obvious in the linked scenario? 

There are 15 year olds and then there are 15 year olds.  Most 15 year old girls who've been raised responsibly, who've attended sex education classes and who're normally observant would not let a drunk 22 year old close enough to digitally rape them

but if he had, those responsibly raised 15 year olds would not have lain down, for a start.  They would have found a way to get home.  Being digitally raped, for a virgin girl, is a lot to handle, is a shock, etc.

but the girl in the OP decided to lie down.  Not at home.  Lie down at a party where she's been sexually molested

she didn't rip the molester's shirt off her back and toss it on the floor, as most girls would who'd been molested by the shirt's owner

no. She kept that shirt and she went for a lie down -- with the shirt.  And when the molester came looking ahem for his shirt, what did he find?  That's right.  He found the girl of his earlier encounter lying down in a room.  Not a verandah or living room filled with people.  On her own in a room with his shirt, and in a prone position

But she still had a chance to prevent any further intimacy between herself and the molester.  All she needed to do was rise from the bed and exit the room

and she had a girlfriend there to help her do just that

but what did the alleged victim do?  Read it Cods.  Read where she sent her concerned friend away because she wanted to be alone with the molester to 'talk' to him

So he's 22 and blind drunk and initially just wants his shirt

but SHE wants to 'talk'

What about?  How do you talk to a drunk to begin with?  You're talking to the contents of a bottle, in this case, several bottles

and what could a supposedly naive 15 year old want to talk about with the man who molested her (yet she'd remained at the party after being molested/digitally raped) ?

What would she say to him?  A supposed 'kid' talking to an alleged sexual predator?  Would she ask, 'Why did you digitally rape me earlier in the night and that's why I've stayed here, so we could talk about it if you returned to me for your shirt? '

And what would he say?  Would he say, 'Sorry.  Now can I have my shirt.  I want to go home" ?

Would he say, 'Well, you weren't objecting, were you?  If you'd objected, I would have stopped.  But you didn't ' ?


Then it gets a bit blurry, doesn't it?  She's in a prone position and next thing, he's raping her

yet she sent her friend away.  And she's in a room alone with the molester

Did she scream while he was raping her?  Did she call for help?  No?  Why not?  Why didn't she belt him one and run outside to the others at the party to ask for help, for the police, her parents, whomever?

Instead, she did not alert others, did not ask for help, did not run from the room.  She told a friend in a text or whatever.  Then told others

and did they question her as to HER behaviours and reactions that night? 

Or is the word RAPE all it takes for people to begin acting as if he's Marqis de Sade and she the Virgin Mary?

He read her hormonal signals which she now denies.  And the judge, aware of the heated climate currently surrounding rape and 'poor women', set the guy on a path from which he'll never be able to recover


I will NOT be surprised if the girl writes to him while he's inside.  And I make no apologies

as to the girl claiming she'll 'never recover'


I bet she does

What she might not recover from in that particular town/region, are people's opinions about her behaviours, which are definitely in question on that particular night


all just my personal opinion, of course

All this because some guy wanted a root.   

Bobby. wrote on Jun 1^st, 2019 at 11:29pm:



for a lot of young men , thats an overwhelming problem to solve.

and their dad "fat steve' has provided a woeful role model of masculinity.

they have no idea how to approach a girl with good clean , non-needy, assertive masculine energy.

so they get drunk and do something stupid and disgusting and fail and then soothe themselves with societies consolation prize for young men...porn, computer games and now legalised pot.

thats what society is pushing onto young men nowadays.

dont approach a woman , its dangerous, do these chode alternatives.

and as young men fall for that crap they become more creepy, more isolated, feel less awesome, feel less confident and women find them disgusting.

older men need to mentor them, but good luck with that.

you do ANYTHING to try to help young men nowadays and the left will try to take you down