Valkie wrote on Aug 26
th, 2018 at 3:55pm:
cods wrote on Aug 26
th, 2018 at 11:45am:
I dont call that a whine......its a day in the life of!!!!!..
and he was tired and cross....
of course he needs to work in the Sydney CBD and live on the outskirts and take hours to get home every night....

its a fact of life for some... every day valkie...
you will probably be picketed by the baggage handlers union next time you fly out of Newcastle...
Yeah.
I was a little cross, tired and fed up.
But the trolls jumped on me as you expect from trolls
you were in, what i call 'low vibration energy".
its very very hard not to get sucked into low vibration.
things rarely "go our way".
if you are ever driving and you get angry or frustrated at a red light, thats a good warning sign.
you are expecting the universe to be benevolent to you and it doesnt work like that.
i call this the "fulfilment narrative".
its a belief (quite common) that the world is coming together for "your awesome life".
its really just a low level narcissism.
all of the great mythological stories talk to the danger of falling into this narrative.
the antidote is actually to walk the "heroes journey".
you want to use pain , frustration and problems as the emotional juice to draw your emotional state from.
you want to accept fully that life is harsh and life in unjust.
you just have to accept that.
if you dont, you will forever remain a toddler and prone to a tantrum.
now you need to see yourself as climbing the "narrow road to success"
its harsh, its hard.
envision yourself as a marathon runner with burning calves who sees a massive uphill in the road.
and heres the key, that uphill is your best friend.
all the competitors, all your fellow humans are going to slow down, and if you dont, if you determine to push thru, then you win.
once you can see all problems and all pain as there to help you and expand you and make you more awesome, then you win.
you win everything, everytime.
fat steve and fat janeen are weak.
when things dont go their way, they get butt hurt as hell.
you want to accept fully the opportunity to use problems as the way to differentiate yourself from steve and janeen.
then you will fall asleep with the wry smile of the guy who earnt it.
then you will be one of those rare men full of joy and passion.
then the universe will make sure your cup does "runneth over"