Agnes wrote on Jun 7
th, 2018 at 1:39pm:
I'm sorry Mantra- agree with cods regarding Aussie and Mothhag-she is pure nasty you might have been dozing off when that happened- she broke a serious rule here and that was a very unintelligent mistake to make- and FD banned her- and rightly so- Aussie is his own worst enemy and that will never change- he is a big boy who will never grow up and take responsibility for himself-I don't think we should be fighting over toxic men- esp Aussie- he has tried to destroy me/many of us for many months/years on end- and who would know why- he is pure nasty and he and Mothhag are are dream match made in heaven- you care fully sanitise every word so a not to offend anyone- I could not be bothered
I wasn't around much when many of these problems were occurring between you, Cods and Mothra.
Then why say anything- I am not a shallow stupid person and you may stick up for Mothballs- go for it- she is at Monks right now and you are a member already- ?
I know you and Cods have complained about her a bit. The thing is AG we shouldn't feel as though we have to dislike someone just because a certain group of people dislike them. (
so you think I am that stpuid and shallow- ok then
n) We can all get on with different people simply because we're all different.
I know what Aussie is like, but over the years - although infuriating at times, he has always been civil to me. Aussie has done some things that I haven't liked, but I'm over it. It might take me a while to forgive and forget - but eventually I do and that applies to everyone.
I don't mean to come across as harsh with Cods - and I'm sure she doesn't intentionally do the same to me - but that's how it is. If she doesn't want a friendship with me because I defend Aussie at times - what am I supposed to do - start hating Aussie and act like some of the other members do towards him? ( I dont hate him either but he is a horrible creep sometimes ( has he stalked you recently)
You and Cods have had some horrible things done to you by people on these forums over the years - so have I. Some people take longer to forgive than others.
I dont hold grudges if possible- and any grudge I do hold is directly propertional to the nastiness of the person involved)