mothra wrote on Apr 12
th, 2017 at 3:06am:
And what's with this "ability" of mine to "turn every thread into an attack" on me?
Are you even a little bit serious?
"Ooooh .. it's the lefty, human rights advocate, feminist ... look how she makes me attack her. Bitch. I'm going to rape her with my words and she's gong to love it ... so ii won't really be a rapist, because she's into it. Yeah!"
Seriously? Honestly, are you serious?
well, yes they are serious and they are correct but it is unhelpful to you for them to enable your addiction.
emotional states are addictive.
let me say that again.
emotional states are ADDICTIVE.
if you are an angry person, if you live in despair or misery, or shame or hate or regret or hopelessness, then YOU WILL SEEK OUT people and experiences that enable you to experience these emotions because THAT IS YOU.
we dont attract what we want, we attract what we are.
and if you attract non stop hate, anger and resentment, then you really have to admit that this is YOUR emotional state.
i dont think any of the posters help you by feeding this addiction which is unhealthy.
when i see that muslim guy with the poster saying "behead those who insult the profit"...i see a guy addicted to hate, anger , evil and scorn.
He is getting off on people "feeding" him those emotions.
when Pauline H or someone on an internet forum hates on him, he gets a little rush of dopamine.
Its the same sh*t.
gratitude training is the key.
when next you need to post, try spending 10 minutes being really grateful to bill gates for making the platform on which you post, say affirmations of gratitude to freediver for creating this interesting website. think of all those humans you can interact with and inspire and help on the narrow road to success.
if all you do is feed your addiction to these very very low emotions, you do no one any good whatsoever. the world is a worse place for your presence. the universe will not treat you kindly . you are getting a little worse with each post. time to turn that trend upside down.
i would suggest steven coveys excellent work "the 7 habits of highly effective people"