mothra wrote on Mar 11
th, 2017 at 10:04am:
[quote author=cods link=1489107506/47#47 date=1489190563]Why we should stop using the phrase 'female genital mutilation'
A
victim of female circumcision has spoken out against the western description of the traditional procedure, saying the use of the phrase
'female genital mutilation' is
culturally insensitive. A young, respected member of the African community in Australia, Khadija Gbla told Waleed Aly that the use of harsh language only serves to alienate survivors of the procedure.
the word VICTIM tells me what it is...

cutting of the human body without their consent.. is MUTILATION...
in some cultures cutting great scars all over ones body is all part of their culture..
would we accept that in AUstralia because they happen to be of a different colour????????>..
some how I dont think so....
what about the women who have the rings placed around their necks..they start at age 2.

its mutilation in our world....
what people do in their own country is up to them
when they come to this country then they have to accept our culture and our rules...
to bad if they are offended..
I am offended by the very nature of this barbaric process..now they are searching for health reasons..

yeah right?...
Cods:
"Perhaps most importantly, we should be very cautious in
labeling and stigmatizing the girls and women who have been cut. We do not believe it is our place to tell them that they are “mutilated.” As with other victims of violence, we believe they have the human right
to self-identify in whatever manner they choose." [/quote]
mothra can you point out where anyone has done that??????
can you also explain.. what the tell tale marks are that tells us they have been circumcised???...

I am extremely aware that I have never once looked at an african women and suspected that...

maybe I am living on a different planet....
but it bothers me that anyone can make an issue out of a 'word'... like cutting or mutilation.....
it is what it is... an invasion of someones body without their consent....
now you are claiming we demonise these women...bnecause of something that happened in their childhood..
I am sorry mothra.....I cant believe you are even serious about this.....
why do I get the impression you go out of your way to demonise this country and the people that live here..
why should we PRETEND
you admit its awful practice...
do you think calling it a different name will make these women feel better about what was done to them???
do you really think that???..
stimatise...
when have we ever done that????????..
its the people that do it..to others that are responsible not the victim....