still blaming the victim  eh?  The thing blokes DON'T GET is that men and women think differently.

The fact is you all are insisting , vehemently, that males are simply superior , by nature.

DOH.  That really shows the difference ...  you're bigger and stronger, and are prepared to go to any lengths to get what you want.  So  ?  obviously you are superior?? 

That is about all your argument consists of, isn't it.?

Really..?  that describes chimpanzees really well.!

... wrote on Mar 18^th, 2016 at 7:38am:



This is true.
Men are more wired for logical thought and analysis.
Women are more wired for emotional reactive thought.

men should be at the cause
women should be at the effect.

masculine energy is penetrating, going out into the world
feminine energy is recieiving, being penetrated literally but also by a wave of emotions.

men are fairly rigid with the truth
women are more fluid with the truth.

the truth for a woman can change with her emotional state.  she isnt being deliberately dishonest by doing this.  in her mind, she can rearrange the truth (and will rearrange the truth) and thats just part of her operational software. dont blame her for it.

but with the consistent and mindful training of an alpha male, she can become far more stable.

part of this is hormonal, women tend to be more honest and more stable from the age of about 50 when they assume a more masculine hormonal profile.

so, we could summise that a Julie Bishop in her late 50's  SHOULD have more ease with being logical then a Sarah Hansen Young  and indeed this would seem to be borne out by the evidence.

One is very grounded,  one is very turbulent.

You cant fight mother nature

I love reading horse boy’s posts. A complete disconnect from reality.

Jovial Monk wrote on Mar 22^nd, 2016 at 5:28am:



this is true, in so much as "group think" and 'social conditioning" ARE  "reality" for the unconscious mind 

cods wrote on Mar 22^nd, 2016 at 7:24am:


cods, women like to experience a 'range of emotions"
look at the plot of any romantic comedy. its all roller coasters of ups and downs and emotional ranges.
Now it is unsafe for a woman to enjoy this range if her partner is also emotional.
She wants a grounded man because he grounds her and enables her to freely experience these emotions and have feminine energy.
Its nothing to do with "beating" it into anyone.
The male has to man up and assume responsibility.
He has to "be a man"
he has to "stay the course"
This is what i mean about being unflinching, consistent and assertive.
There is not a hint of meaness or anger in it. It is the manly quality of seeing the job through and not reacting to the circumstances.
It is being rock solid amongst turmoil.
a man who would "beat ' anyone has lost control of his emotions.
he is no longer behaving as a man

a man who would "beat ' anyone has lost control of his emotions.
he is no longer behaving as a man
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Too bad so many 'men' don't agree with you. Then of course, it is true,  a good man is hard to find.

Your expectations of men ??  are quite frankly setting the bar way higher then most men are capable of achieving. That is just a fact.

sigh

I  like a good hard man myself.

Emma wrote on Mar 22^nd, 2016 at 10:47pm:


Viagra changed that. Now 90 year old men take a bottle of it to Manila for holiday.