Mothra and Emma,
let aquascoot explain this dynamic to you.
never ask a woman about such matters because women dont understand their own minds (This is not a criticism, just a fact,.....women , in their relationships , feed off emotional energy and are not logical!!! They can be fed off negative emotional energy and drama, some prefer this to the Durrrr state
A woman who, for example had a father who neglected her as a child and abandoned her mother to run off with his secretary...such a woman will have a very distorted model of a man.
She may have this dysfunctional model of "what a man is" and revert to this as people
1 dont like to push out of the familiar
2 even (and sometimes ESPECIALLY) beautiful women can be crazy insecure and have success barriers and limiting beliefs, self esteem issues etc.
I dont know the circumstances, but i would wager that this girl does NOT have a good relationship with her father or it is a dysfunctional relationship.
I would bet that her dad was not mindful with her training when she was a child and teenager and he was lazy with her training.
Let me explain.
Beautiful girls in particular are in grave danger if not trained well.
They get put on a pedestal and they get very little "social pressure"
Lets say i had a beautiful horse and i just adored it, took photos of it, put pink ribbons on it, brushed it and put the pics on facebook and everyone just gave me likes and said "oh how beautiful"
Is such an experience "teaching it" anything useful.
No!!!.
You take that horse and let it loose in the jungle and its FAAAAARKED.
So, it is the responsibility of the alpha males and lead mares training this beautiful horse/young girl, to apply social pressure.
to grind out the lessons, to be consistent and persistent, yo not treat it in any special way, to make it do chores and be assertive and not put it up on a pedestal.
A beautiful young woman is actually at a disadvantage because she will probably have no resilience as she has just had people fall at her feet all her life.
(remember Oprah Whinfrey was a pregnant abused 14 yo with bad looks )....success comes from failing and failing and failing and learning the lessons.
where does a gorgeous young girl get taught the lessons of success, where does she get taught to think and be resilient??
You know a lot of beautiful women operate at very low levels of consciousness due to their looks.
They really dont need to employ their thinking brain.
They can dick around on facebook and get periodic nose jobs for "manufactured problems" even if their nose never looked bad.
And they can still probably be a low level celebrity for 10 years or so.(then the problems set in )
The lesson is that success is not something that just "happens" to some people.
It is a conscious choice and you need to apply all your skills to it if you want to achieve it.
A beautiful model in Zoo magazine has the world at her feet but if she does NOT apply a rigorous training schedule, she will falter for sure.
I would ask her
How many books did she read every month to achieve wisdom?
How many courses did she do to improve her skills?
Did she meditate?
Did she look after her nutrition ?
Did she consciously seek out a good ecosystem of quality friends?
Did she understand her own emotions?
Did she have mental strength to push though obstacles?
Did she study success?
Did she approach life with a sense of contribution and interact with the many disadvantaged people who she could have inspired and who would have kept her grounded?
Did she use drugs and alcohol as a quick fix rather then go on the journey to emotional mastery?
My suspicion is that because she had such advantages , she never learnt a strong logical work ethic like the pimpley faced girl with braces who spent her time in the library and is now a chartered accountant.
As for the guy
Well, we are herd animals, this girl has brothers, father, uncles, male co-workers, male friends (hopefully)....
It is their responsibility to use training techniques on this guy to ensure that this behaviour is rectified.
If they dont, they show the girls that alpha males no longer exist, and what a sad day it will be for the world if that ever happens (though Mothra and Emma probably think it would be a good thing

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