mothra wrote on Jan 21
st, 2016 at 9:17pm:
Is this guy for real?
And people (always other blokes) tell him his advice is good?
What century is this?
my advice is spot on.
My partner has many friends who left their husbands when the kids had grown up.
about 45 to 50.
They plague and swarm internet dating sites , and beer gardens on a sunday avo.
And their universal complaint is that there are no "real ' men out there.
There are damaged players who cant hold a relationship together for 24 hours and there are clingy , needy wimps who want a mummy figure to nurture them.
Damn straight my advice is correct.
women like confident guys, who are on mission with their lives, who have no neediness, have a purpose in life that is greater then "being with their cherish" and who can remain rock solid and allow them to experience their emotions (which is what women like to do).
I say again, if you pander to your woman, if you try to win "brownie points", if you let her wear the pants, if you let her decide where the kids will go to school,if you make her organise all the holidays, if you are a weak and directionless man, she will lose attraction for you.
A woman cannot be happy in a relationship with a man who has less confidence then her. If you lack confidence , you need to clean that up.