Melanias purse wrote on Jan 12
th, 2016 at 10:29am:
aquascoot wrote on Jan 12
th, 2016 at 10:25am:
... wrote on Jan 12
th, 2016 at 10:12am:
mothra wrote on Jan 12
th, 2016 at 10:02am:
... wrote on Jan 12
th, 2016 at 10:00am:
mothra wrote on Jan 12
th, 2016 at 9:54am:
... wrote on Jan 12
th, 2016 at 9:53am:
Cant blame others for your own insecurities.
You really don't get it do you?
Never mind. I didn't think you would.
Mannn....youre just so hopelessly unaware. You need yo go back and read aquascoots posts on ego.
But you wont. The olive branch has ben extended to you several times, but you have to much pride to take it.
Horse Boy's posts are a joke.
Why am not surprised you take them seriously.
... and what smacking olive branch?
See? You complain about abuse but then elittling refer to a poster who has done nothing at all to wrong you as 'horse boy' and call his thoughts a joke.
So hopelessly unaware.
The ego grips very strongly to its belief system.
The ego wont let people see the truth....why would it, it would lead to a reduction in its power.
I view the grip that ego has on people in a similar way to a child gripping a favourite toy.
If you try to just grab the toy off them, they will grip it even more tightly, with white knuckles indeed.
To get someone to give up their ego, they have to be shown a better way.
With a child, you offer another toy and they will release the first.
Personal development is the "toy" that hopefully one day , people of low consciousness will see and they will drop this attachment to "victim " status and replace it with something better.
But it is a process that cant be forced.
they have to come to this realisation in their own time.
Slowly, people will come to the realisation that their anger, success barriers and self sabotage are not serving them well.
Oh but they cling to what they know and will not leave their comfort zone.
They remind me of a homeless person with crazy eyes asking you for cash.
You can see that they are just totally stuck in life.
Even if you were to engage them in conversation, it will probably not help. They will probably think you are some prick who is trying to steal their cardboard box
Nonsense..
You just need to ban them, or if that doesn’t work, kill them.
It’s their fault, you see.
"just get rid of them" is a very very common saying in the horse world for horses who wont behave themselves.
But, we need to look more deeply.
All horses and indeed all humans are born "pure".
Now horses are born with a fully functional brain and can run 3km at full speed within 2 hours of birth.
Humans take many many years to get up to full speed.
But if a horse has a bad habit (bucks rears or bolts) it is because a human has taught it to do that, so it is unacceptable to just wipe our hands and send it to the meatworks.
It can be retrained (though retraining takes much longer then correctly training in the first place).
This is how i view people with negative neurotic thinking, success barriers and limiting beliefs. this is how i view people stuck in group think.
They dont need to be banned or eliminated.
They were born pure and they can be retrained.
Someone has messed them up, but we can unmess them.
So the ISIS militant, the angry union rep, the farmer who exploits the environment, the businessman who cheats....if we apply the correct training principles....they are all salvagable.
Someone has influenced them to go in the wrong direction but we can turn that around.
It is the responsibility of the successful person , who has climbed to the top of the cliff, to throw the rope over and help others up to admire the view.
But the person at the bottom must still make the decision to climb. It will do him no good to just look at the guy at the top and call him a prick for being up there whilst he is still down there
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