greggerypeccary wrote on Feb 11
th, 2016 at 8:48pm:
aquascoot wrote on Feb 11
th, 2016 at 8:34pm:
Most lefties are beyond help unfortunately.
They think ...
And that's where they (we) differ from people like you.
from my sense of contribution , i"m still hoping we can rehabilitate you Gweg.
When i get a bad horse, you often have to peel away the layers like an onion, you just have to keep peeling away and at the core, you can usually find something you can work with.
Horses dont have an ego though, unlike humans, ( Phar Lap , for example was a beta and submissive to a pony)which is why horses and dogs are so fun to work with and humans can be very very draining .
these layers that have to be peeled away are what i call the layers of social conditioning.
you would have been conditioned in 2 ways.
your friends people like Mothra , say, give you good emotions when you vent leftard ideas.
those you choose as enemies dont really alter your position at all. in fact, when you get in a fight with a rightard, you are hardening your resolve. you are becoming more stuck in your reactive brain and you are not using your logical brain.
this is obvious to me as a horseman.
you cannot teach a horse anything by arguing with it as it will just pull the other way even harder. it will lean on any aid you are applying.
the only way forward is to get the horse, or the leftard to relax and start engaging their logical brain.
this is very very hard work,
it really means that all rightards dealing with you should be very detached and unemotional.
arguing or fighting with an anxious and fearful leftie will only make the situation worse.
the leftie , like the beta horse, has to be taught respect but this requires patience, consistency. You cant out emotion a leftie, you cant out muscle it, as it has such a large reactive brain.
you must try to out think it (not hard) , get it to see that its resistance is due to its ego drawing strength from its negative emotions.
so is gweg salvageable....probably, yes, it will require righties to keep pointing the way.
we must encourage gweg to meditate, this will help with ego reduction. some sort of NLP would help, we need to change the tape that is playing in the head of a leftard.
like a spooked horse, every time we create a situation where a leftie gets emotional, we are deepening the rut of suffering in which the leftie brain operates.
please, if all righties could just be very persistent, consistent and patient when dealing with lefties, the job may be able to be accomplished. This is also part of the mindfulness training for the right. we must recognise that lefties are a bit like naughty children and need us to be the bigger people. As the confident and logical side of humanity, this is not a problem, but a task we will grow to relish as the natural leaders and successful contributors to society