mantra wrote on Jan 17
th, 2016 at 10:15am:
cods wrote on Jan 17
th, 2016 at 9:58am:
please dont ignore mantra just agree to disagree about somethings she is a very reasonable person...
mantra cannot take the stress of bickering.. especially when it starts getting personal.....and I dont see why she should put up with it..she is at the stage where she wont partake of some threads because of the people involved..
so dont you dare let her down....she gets support from skippy on PA>.. and thats what she needs...
she is an extremely harmless member who just tells it like she sees it...now if your talking about ME...well thats different..
dont ignore them monk just dont drag up the past...and call the place names..
monk if someone was on here calling your forum ugly names I am sure you would defend it..
Thank you Cods. Your comments are appreciated. As much I've had my ups and downs with some of the PA members - at least if they're going to call me names - they do it in full view of everyone. I haven't got any nasty private messages from any of them. Some people here pretend they're so high up on the morality scale in public, but are quite different in private. It's a good thing for them that their messages can't be posted for everyone to see. They would quickly topple off their pedestals.
your welcome my dear.... I am fed up to the eyeballs with females being singled out...as if we are a lower species....it pizzzzzzes me off to be honest...and I think its high time you went on other threads without fear of being attacked by both sexes.. some of the females can do with pulling in their heads as well....
but this PA thing is all about choice isnt it?? you dont have to look or read or take part...
and if you are happy there.... isnt that a good thing????>...
I havent had awful PMs got to say that.. even from those who dont like me they have always been polite...so have no experience of that.. so sorry to hear that...but you can stop them from PM you cant you??.. thats what I understood....
I would love to see the girls stick up for each other more....what happened years ago isnt happening now.. isnt that what counts......we all change give others the benefit of changing as well...
i also was a ratbaggy in the past could get very nasty but it wasnt until it was pointed out to me that I took the trouble to read my own posts..
it gave me a bit of a shock I can tell you...
not much point complaining about abuse when you just as bad is it..