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Baronvonrort Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 20408 Gender:	Re: Speaking of Domestic Violence ... dear O dear.. Reply #15 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 2:36pm greggerypeccary wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 1:57pm: Are you suggesting that Christians don't beat their wives? Can you cite the verse from the bible where god allows wife beating if you fear disobedience Mr Peccahead?
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Reply #16 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:37pm

Domestic violence is not necessarily about wife/husband getting physically violent. It usually begins with one or the other throwing verbal insults at each other and progresses from that.

Domestic violence means one partner treating the other partner like crap. IF it goes on, then, often and eventually "MURDER" is the eventual outcome.

Husbands AND wives are equally able to do this. Some of us leave before it gets to that and as I have said, it was lucky that I didn't take a knife to the arsehole ... I walked out, with NOTHING and got nothing monetary from him. He never saw his daughter again until she was 19 and checked up on him with the help from a friend of mine. I had never ever said anything bad about him ... I encouraged her to call him but he hung up.

He is now dead .... since 2006. He left nothing of importance and I presume died a pauper since nobody wanted to pay for his funeral.

I think he was a latent gay. My daughter says as much. We know he was a trannie. There was evidence of that! How effing sad. He used to be quite important and earned heaps of money too.

Beat that, AG. Wink

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Reply #17 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:39pm

Baronvonrort wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 2:36pm:

greggerypeccary wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 1:57pm:

Are you suggesting that Christians don't beat their wives?

Can you cite the verse from the bible where god allows wife beating if you fear disobedience Mr Peccahead?

No.

What does that have to do with this thread?

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Reply #18 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:42pm

Baronvonrort wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 2:36pm:

greggerypeccary wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 1:57pm:

Are you suggesting that Christians don't beat their wives?

Can you cite the verse from the bible where god allows wife beating if you fear disobedience Mr Peccahead?

I'm not buying into the religious argument, as I don't care what is written in any Book of the Bible or similar kind. But, it seems that there is a verse in the Bible which instructs women on the matter, and by not being submissive to the Husband, the Wife is Biblically non compliant.

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Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

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greggerypeccary Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 150690 Gender:	Re: Speaking of Domestic Violence ... dear O dear.. Reply #19 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:45pm double plus good wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 12:50pm: Quick! Nobody mention Islam. Mention whatever you like, however, this thread is about domestic violence. Why bring religion into it? Are you suggesting that Christians don't beat their wives?
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Neferti Gold Member Offline Posts: 7965 Canberra Gender:	Re: Speaking of Domestic Violence ... dear O dear.. Reply #20 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:51pm I opened up and you males still think it was MY FAULT? Talk about AVOIDING the problem. Most of you males do that. Call it "a chemical imbalance" or "God told me" or whatever. Change the subject. Right! LOL the subject is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
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Reply #21 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:51pm

greggerypeccary wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:45pm:

double plus good wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 12:50pm:

Quick! Nobody mention Islam.

Mention whatever you like, however, this thread is about domestic violence.

Why bring religion into it?

Are you suggesting that Christians don't beat their wives?

Well the Koran does mention that women are under men and El-masri is a muslim . So I'm assuming that the koran is where he gets his morality from.

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Reply #23 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:00pm

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:37pm:

Domestic violence is not necessarily about wife/husband getting physically violent. It usually begins with one or the other throwing verbal insults at each other and progresses from that.

Domestic violence means one partner treating the other partner like crap. IF it goes on, then, often and eventually "MURDER" is the eventual outcome.

Husbands AND wives are equally able to do this. Some of us leave before it gets to that and as I have said, it was lucky that I didn't take a knife to the arsehole ... I walked out, with NOTHING and got nothing monetary from him. He never saw his daughter again until she was 19 and checked up on him with the help from a friend of mine. I had never ever said anything bad about him ... I encouraged her to call him but he hung up.

He is now dead .... since 2006. He left nothing of importance and I presume died a pauper since nobody wanted to pay for his funeral.

I think he was a latent gay. My daughter says as much. We know he was a trannie. There was evidence of that! How effing sad. He used to be quite important and earned heaps of money too.

Beat that, AG. Wink

I don't think it's your fault. I believe you should have knifed the guy. He sounds like a creep.

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Reply #24 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:08pm

double plus good wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:00pm:

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:37pm:

Domestic violence is not necessarily about wife/husband getting physically violent. It usually begins with one or the other throwing verbal insults at each other and progresses from that.

Domestic violence means one partner treating the other partner like crap. IF it goes on, then, often and eventually "MURDER" is the eventual outcome.

Husbands AND wives are equally able to do this. Some of us leave before it gets to that and as I have said, it was lucky that I didn't take a knife to the arsehole ... I walked out, with NOTHING and got nothing monetary from him. He never saw his daughter again until she was 19 and checked up on him with the help from a friend of mine. I had never ever said anything bad about him ... I encouraged her to call him but he hung up.

He is now dead .... since 2006. He left nothing of importance and I presume died a pauper since nobody wanted to pay for his funeral.

I think he was a latent gay. My daughter says as much. We know he was a trannie. There was evidence of that! How effing sad. He used to be quite important and earned heaps of money too.

Beat that, AG. Wink

I don't think it's your fault. I believe you should have knifed the guy. He sounds like a creep.

Nothing 'domestically violent' about that of course. All creeps should be knifed, no doubt about it.

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Reply #25 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:10pm

Aussie wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:56pm:

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:51pm:

I opened up and you males still think it was MY FAULT?

Who said that? I did not see anything of the kind. How would anyone know one way or the other?

Unlike you, Aussie, I speak the truth and it has taken me some "courage" to tell all what my marital/divorce background was all about. I currently live alone and have done since 1983.

I am happy now but I still see problems between partners that often result in a MURDER. It is very difficult for a female to walk out on a marriage. I did it. I did NOT want anything "material" from him. I wanted sole "custody" of my child. That was it.

Within 18 months I had already bought a house ........ he was let off and gave me nothing material. I really and truly started AGAIN.

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Reply #26 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:14pm

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:10pm:

Aussie wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:56pm:

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:51pm:

I opened up and you males still think it was MY FAULT?

Who said that? I did not see anything of the kind. How would anyone know one way or the other?

Unlike you, Aussie, I speak the truth and it has taken me some "courage" to tell all what my marital/divorce background was all about. I currently live alone and have done since 1983.

I am happy now but I still see problems between partners that often result in a MURDER. It is very difficult for a female to walk out on a marriage. I did it. I did NOT want anything "material" from him. I wanted sole "custody" of my child. That was it.

Within 18 months I had already bought a house ........ he was let off and gave me nothing material. I really and truly started AGAIN.

Great. But where did anyone say you were at fault, which was my question.

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Reply #27 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:15pm

Aussie wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:08pm:

double plus good wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:00pm:

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:37pm:

Domestic violence is not necessarily about wife/husband getting physically violent. It usually begins with one or the other throwing verbal insults at each other and progresses from that.

Domestic violence means one partner treating the other partner like crap. IF it goes on, then, often and eventually "MURDER" is the eventual outcome.

Husbands AND wives are equally able to do this. Some of us leave before it gets to that and as I have said, it was lucky that I didn't take a knife to the arsehole ... I walked out, with NOTHING and got nothing monetary from him. He never saw his daughter again until she was 19 and checked up on him with the help from a friend of mine. I had never ever said anything bad about him ... I encouraged her to call him but he hung up.

He is now dead .... since 2006. He left nothing of importance and I presume died a pauper since nobody wanted to pay for his funeral.

I think he was a latent gay. My daughter says as much. We know he was a trannie. There was evidence of that! How effing sad. He used to be quite important and earned heaps of money too.

Beat that, AG. Wink

I don't think it's your fault. I believe you should have knifed the guy. He sounds like a creep.

Nothing 'domestically violent' about that of course. All creeps should be knifed, no doubt about it.

FMD ... you are right in there arsie .... perhaps you CONTROL your wife, kids and grandkids hey?

CONTROL is a form of Domestic Violence. Angry

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Reply #28 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:21pm

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:15pm:

Aussie wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:08pm:

double plus good wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:00pm:

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:37pm:

Domestic violence is not necessarily about wife/husband getting physically violent. It usually begins with one or the other throwing verbal insults at each other and progresses from that.

Domestic violence means one partner treating the other partner like crap. IF it goes on, then, often and eventually "MURDER" is the eventual outcome.

Husbands AND wives are equally able to do this. Some of us leave before it gets to that and as I have said, it was lucky that I didn't take a knife to the arsehole ... I walked out, with NOTHING and got nothing monetary from him. He never saw his daughter again until she was 19 and checked up on him with the help from a friend of mine. I had never ever said anything bad about him ... I encouraged her to call him but he hung up.

He is now dead .... since 2006. He left nothing of importance and I presume died a pauper since nobody wanted to pay for his funeral.

I think he was a latent gay. My daughter says as much. We know he was a trannie. There was evidence of that! How effing sad. He used to be quite important and earned heaps of money too.

Beat that, AG. Wink

I don't think it's your fault. I believe you should have knifed the guy. He sounds like a creep.

Nothing 'domestically violent' about that of course. All creeps should be knifed, no doubt about it.

FMD ... you are right in there arsie .... perhaps you CONTROL your wife, kids and grandkids hey?

CONTROL is a form of Domestic Violence. Angry

Not at all. In fact, I am quite docile and affable.

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Reply #29 - Oct 20^th, 2015 at 4:42pm

Neferti wrote on Oct 20^th, 2015 at 3:37pm:

Domestic violence is not necessarily about wife/husband getting physically violent. It usually begins with one or the other throwing verbal insults at each other and progresses from that.

Domestic violence means one partner treating the other partner like crap. IF it goes on, then, often and eventually "MURDER" is the eventual outcome.

Husbands AND wives are equally able to do this. Some of us leave before it gets to that and as I have said, it was lucky that I didn't take a knife to the arsehole ... I walked out, with NOTHING and got nothing monetary from him. He never saw his daughter again until she was 19 and checked up on him with the help from a friend of mine. I had never ever said anything bad about him ... I encouraged her to call him but he hung up.

He is now dead .... since 2006. He left nothing of importance and I presume died a pauper since nobody wanted to pay for his funeral.

I think he was a latent gay. My daughter says as much. We know he was a trannie. There was evidence of that! How effing sad. He used to be quite important and earned heaps of money too.

Beat that, AG. Wink

I deleted my comment and after that response I am glad I did- we are trying to out do each other with stories of who was the most abused?

You have no idea, I tone down my language and tell but a fraction of my true story, but then I knew it was really too personal to share. I feel for you if you were abused Neferti, one thing that is certain is that I know what you went through and the lasting impact that has been left stays with you ( us ) still. Its not a competition, abuse is abuse and our stories may vary slightly, a different script but the ending is always the same. It was not so much what he did to me, but my kids that really left its mark, they were never hit, I made sure of that, but not having a loving father leaves its mark on them. Succeeding in spite of his campaign of personal destruction was very gratifying.
He needs help.

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