mantra wrote on Oct 18
th, 2014 at 12:16pm:
Annie Anthrax wrote on Oct 18
th, 2014 at 11:36am:
mantra wrote on Oct 18
th, 2014 at 9:39am:
cods wrote on Oct 18
th, 2014 at 8:59am:
thanks mantra... watch out these people dont turn on you...they are do brave behind their little ids...pathetic is another word for them.
dont tell me life goes on is married to FD???...nothing would surprise me...
Apparently he's married to someone here who can protect him from the powers of moderation. Aussie should be appointed a global moderator. Some might think he's harsh - but he's at least fair.
You are way out of line by suggesting that I am unfair, Mantra. I am sick of your snide insinuations. You're also out of line in suggesting that just because LGO is my husband, I'd let that post slide.
How about you show me where I've been inconsistent or unfair?
I'm not the one who made the abusive comment.
What does surprise me is that LGO would make such an unacceptable comment and put you in the position you're now in by having to defend him. He's not showing any respect for the rules of this board.
If you want your private life to be kept out of bounds, then don't discuss it on such a huge forum. Of course you're bound to get references to it from time to time.
Um in your own quote, you are quite clearly the one who talked about a poster protected by their moderator spouse, might be a good time for you to quietly back out of the conversation (given apologising in this place is often times in the way too hard basket).
Here is the thing, as articulated in the rules...
Copy the offending post (use the quote button, it's pretty easy), put that in a pm then include a link to the thread from the offending post.... Then send that on to one or more moderators (clearly if you send it to all the mods, you cannot be accused of not being transparent). If you send it to a few mods you immediately address your own articulate fears of mod bias...
Make no mistake, I am not a big fan of the "system" either, but it is what it is. One can uselessly whinge here about it, or, whilst whinging here, at least attempt to be effective and follow the articulated procedures...
I think that you did cross a line, that means nothing of course, I am just another punter/poster in the melting pot though. I don't think that your follow up post was a brilliant defence either, in fact, if nothing else it compounded the initial line cross.
I guess it is lucky our mods have some patience at the very least.