longweekend58 wrote on Sep 15
th, 2014 at 10:56am:
you don't think laziness is a personal decision and choice? 'stupid' is also not merely intelligence but how it is applied. most stupid people I know are so because they refuse to learn and to take advice. that is a CHOICE as well.
Not in the way that people generally think about it. Nearly everything in life is driven from circumstance. This is a simple fact, your experiences and environment make you who you are, they drive all of your decisions be them good or bad. It's now a matter of how we use this knowledge.
Lots of people refuse to learn, or to take advice usually because they have competing interests. One reason people are lazy is because it was how they were brought up, or it's an aspect of personality. You can't use punishment as a motivator against beliefs or thinking effectively. Telling someone straight up "you are wrong" is likely only to harden their opposition. This leads to the inevitable hard-line stances against the to other position without caring what it actually is.
There are some people who are actually not able to work things out due to lack of mental capacity, but for most people this is a non issue. It's about what they know or do not, and what they have experience with.
There are some people that are just lazy, but more often it will be competing motivations and priorities in life. We should be far more concerned with how to make life better for more people than we should be with forcing people to fit our preconceived notations of what success is.
ah... fatalism, the KING of excuses.
your last sentence is pure folly. you want money? WORK. you want success? WORK. you want more and more? WORK HARDER. it is actually an incredibly simple concept.