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Reply #30 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 5:33pm

cods wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 5:22pm:

I havent seen another women push a female off a tall buildings balcony lately or a female shoot another whilst she hid in a toilet...

It happens Cods...and women can transform into violent maniacs given enough aggravation..they are as bad and worse , verbally and physically, as men at times...there are plenty of examples in the news if you keep your ears and eyes open...

I think women can be very aggressive /violent when at their hormonal worst and are much more to be feared than most men.. we like to think they just don't got there but they do... anyway why do we just focus in the worst...most women are reasonable caring human beings most of the time.. and the odd time they lose their sh*t should not be held against them, unless they commit a murder..same goes for men, all of this applies to men too... everything is linked to our evolutionary hard wiring in the main anyway...pre programming from our very beginnings ...hard wired-hard taught.

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Reply #31 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 5:54pm

Postmodern Trendoid III wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 3:28pm:

Bingo. Women have excellent memories, particularly toward those that they believed wronged them. This revenge brews, simmers and ferments for years.

'ferments' ? Grin

Becomes an alcoholic beverage sloshing around in the mind!

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Female gangs are more violent than male gangs, and bullying between females at school can be worse than with the boys.

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Reply #32 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:04pm

Amadd wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 9:06am:

I don't think you're ever going to stop women being in competition with each other or men being in competition with each other.
As long as it's healthy competition ie: No bs, then I think it serves a good purpose.

I haven't encountered a lot of females who want to compete. If one is particularly aggressive and jealous, then it's easier to back off, rather than confront them head on.

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When it diminishes to denigrating, catty, bitchy lies and innuendos (from men too), then it's only going to be the bs artist that loses respect and attractiveness in the long term...well, you'd hope so anyway.

That is true Amadd. Most men and women try to maintain their dignity, although some people don't care what others think of them.

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It's easy enough to spot somebody who uses put-downs as means to try and raise the view of themselves. and unfortunately, this is often seen as drive and motivation in the corporate world.

Staying on top of the politics in corporations can be soul destroying if it isn't in your nature to be cut throat. It's easy to become burnt out after a number of years selling the ideals of your leaders when you don't agree with them.

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Some people make such an art form out of it that you can think your having a normal conversation with somebody and then go away scratching your head thinking, "Hey! that person just threw a load of backhanded insults at me" ..haha.
But who cares? Those people will never have much contentment in their lives. It's a pity that they need to do this when they could be using their talents for goodness and not rottenness Cheesy

We all try to be good, but sometimes when you're grossly insulted, it's hard to just smile and move on. Still if we try to stick to the standards we set for ourselves and manage it more times than not, then we don't have to feel bad about ourselves.

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Reply #33 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:30pm

cods wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 10:54am:

it isnt about competition... when it comes to that there is not a lot of difference between the genders...

its how they compete...women are cruel and mean they dont in my opinion fight fair.. if they know something about a person.. that was even told in confidence they cant wait to use it..in a spiteful way...how many times to do hear one women call another a slut?....its the first word out of their mouth...women are easy targets... but other women are the worst offenders...

You're right about spilling confidences for revenge, no matter how personal and how long ago they were shared. Online for example - I've shared thousands of messages and emails over the years with a lot of people. I've always deleted them after I've read them, but on the rare occasion you'll find a person who saves emails and messages up for many years so any personal information will be at their fingertips and can be used as ammunition.

You can't give up trusting everyone because of one or two people though.

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women seem to have fewer friends than men.. I have noticed..

I think it's a result of getting older Cods. You become more selfish with your time and just delegate it more selectively to those who suit you, rather than the other way around. You give up trying to be nice to everyone.

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Reply #34 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:43pm

mantra wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:30pm:

cods wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 10:54am:

it isnt about competition... when it comes to that there is not a lot of difference between the genders...

its how they compete...women are cruel and mean they dont in my opinion fight fair.. if they know something about a person.. that was even told in confidence they cant wait to use it..in a spiteful way...how many times to do hear one women call another a slut?....its the first word out of their mouth...women are easy targets... but other women are the worst offenders...

You're right about spilling confidences for revenge, no matter how personal and how long ago they were shared. Online for example - I've shared thousands of messages and emails over the years with a lot of people. I've always deleted them after I've read them, but on the rare occasion you'll find a person who saves emails and messages up for many years so any personal information will be at their fingertips and can be used as ammunition.

You can't give up trusting everyone because of one or two people though.

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women seem to have fewer friends than men.. I have noticed..

I think it's a result of getting older Cods. You become more selfish with your time and just delegate it more selectively to those who suit you, rather than the other way around. You give up trying to be nice to everyone.

lol you could be right.. but even noticing my own daughters.. they have many aquaintances but only about 4 or 5 real females friends.. where as the blokes seem to have many mates....

I an very choosy who I give my time too now.....! have had two bad experiences with women whom I thought were besties.. did more for them than any one else ever did.. and then got dumped like a sack of poo...when it happened the second time and of course in hindesight one can see how badly one was used... serves me right... Roll Eyes

I made up my mind never again...my focus now is my girls and grandkids...I wouldnt turn my back on anyone.. but never again will I do what I did for them.. for anyone.. twice bitten twice shy as they say..

I am sure when it comes to EVIL.. women will outstrip the blokes...its a power thing...dont forget...like on here.. some mods like threatening all the time...its power... Cool

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Reply #35 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:44pm

mantra wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:30pm:

cods wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 10:54am:

it isnt about competition... when it comes to that there is not a lot of difference between the genders...

its how they compete...women are cruel and mean they dont in my opinion fight fair.. if they know something about a person.. that was even told in confidence they cant wait to use it..in a spiteful way...how many times to do hear one women call another a slut?....its the first word out of their mouth...women are easy targets... but other women are the worst offenders...

You're right about spilling confidences for revenge, no matter how personal and how long ago they were shared. Online for example - I've shared thousands of messages and emails over the years with a lot of people. I've always deleted them after I've read them, but on the rare occasion you'll find a person who saves emails and messages up for many years so any personal information will be at their fingertips and can be used as ammunition.

You can't give up trusting everyone because of one or two people though.

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women seem to have fewer friends than men.. I have noticed..

I think it's a result of getting older Cods. You become more selfish with your time and just delegate it more selectively to those who suit you, rather than the other way around. You give up trying to be nice to everyone.

lol you could be right.. but even noticing my own daughters.. they have many aquaintances but only about 4 or 5 real females friends.. where as the blokes seem to have many mates....

I an very choosy who I give my time too now.....! have had two bad experiences with women whom I thought were besties.. did more for them than any one else ever did.. and then got dumped like a sack of poo...when it happened the second time and of course in hindesight one can see how badly one was used... serves me right... Roll Eyes

I made up my mind never again...my focus now is my girls and grandkids...I wouldnt turn my back on anyone.. but never again will I do what I did for them.. for anyone.. twice bitten twice shy as they say..

I am sure when it comes to EVIL.. women will outstrip the blokes...its a power thing...dont forget...like on here.. some mods like threatening all the time...its power... Cool

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Re: Females who denigrate their own gender sexually
Reply #36 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:58pm

Lord Herbert wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 5:54pm:

Postmodern Trendoid III wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 3:28pm:

Bingo. Women have excellent memories, particularly toward those that they believed wronged them. This revenge brews, simmers and ferments for years.

'ferments' ? Grin

Becomes an alcoholic beverage sloshing around in the mind!

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Female gangs are more violent than male gangs, and bullying between females at school can be worse than with the boys.

I think this is a type of fermentation and certainly seems apt..

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You're right about spilling confidences for revenge, no matter how personal and how long ago they were shared. Online for example - I've shared thousands of messages and emails over the years with a lot of people

Anything written on an open forum is not written in confidence ie: a personal msg...so lets not mix our meanings here, because that would be dishonest and mischeivious, . If it's written in a public medium such as a forum, then confidentiality doesn't come into it.

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The Mole Gold Member Offline http://www.ozpolitic .co/album/forum-atta chments/y Posts: 1499 Gender:	Re: Females who denigrate their own gender sexually Reply #38 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 8:24pm yep in a nutshell...
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Reply #39 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 8:33pm

The Mole wrote on Sep 4^th, 2014 at 7:58pm:

Anything written on an open forum is not written in confidence ie: a personal msg...so lets not mix our meanings here, because that would be dishonest and mischeivious, . If it's written in a public medium such as a forum, then confidentiality doesn't come into it.

I was talking about private messages and emails - not an open forum where every man and his dog can read it.

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The Mole Gold Member Offline http://www.ozpolitic .co/album/forum-atta chments/y Posts: 1499 Gender:	Re: Females who denigrate their own gender sexually Reply #40 - Sep 4^th, 2014 at 8:44pm Oh well I'm glad we cleared that up... I was starting to thinking your post's needed decoding...again.
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Reply #41 - Sep 5^th, 2014 at 5:24am

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If it's written in a public medium such as a forum, then confidentiality doesn't come into it.

Plenty of people have talked on a forum about incidents in their lives which have caused them despair, but a person with just a little decency wouldn't throw it in their face to score points. As an example there was an incident not long ago when a woman inflicted with cancer was told to hurry up and die. Those who believe exploiting human misery is up for grabs don't score points.

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Reply #42 - Sep 5^th, 2014 at 9:03am

mantra wrote on Sep 5^th, 2014 at 5:24am:

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If it's written in a public medium such as a forum, then confidentiality doesn't come into it.

Plenty of people have talked on a forum about incidents in their lives which have caused them despair, but a person with just a little decency wouldn't throw it in their face to score points. As an example there was an incident not long ago when a woman inflicted with cancer was told to hurry up and die. Those who believe exploiting human misery is up for grabs don't score points.

exactly mantra its used to be CRUEL...when I disclosed my husnad died of cancer I got all sorts of taunts...about him glad he was dead that sort of thing....I was horrified.. I can tell you a little gang sprang up and they would all join in...one of them is on the boards today...it took a long while for me to recover.. [assuming I did]....as the wound of losing my husband is still there...

when you live alone you do spill things out on a forum like this...not giving thought to those who love being cruel...all you want is a little understanding....why is that so hard????

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Reply #43 - Sep 5^th, 2014 at 9:18am

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lol you could be right.. but even noticing my own daughters.. they have many aquaintances but only about 4 or 5 real females friends.. where as the blokes seem to have many mates....

I think that's just nature. Young men especially are programmed to have their clan of mates for male purposes, whereas young women are programmed to want to be the desired ones.
Disregarding what's perceived to be fair or unfair, that system has worked well enough through the ages.
It's nice to have somebody to trust, but as a general rule, you can only trust people to look after their own interests.

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