Kytro wrote on Jul 24
th, 2014 at 11:35am:
King FriYAY II wrote on Jul 24
th, 2014 at 10:24am:
In a situation like this you're not going to stand there and contemplate your emotions!
"Hmmmmm now should i kick the poo out of this piece of crap - oooops your being emotional, naughty boy!"
This is spur of the moment "you filthy piece of crap i'm going to kill your sick arse" stuff.
If it was me my rage would be instant and blinding..
The thing is this isn't the case for all people. When I am faced with an urgent situation I tend to go into fix it mode and that mode does not include blind rage. If anything I get more detached and look for a way to fix the immediate issue. Not everyone does, though. Some people get angry, some people panic.
Red-out is a real thing. I'm not saying it isn't understandable, but that is different to justified or a good idea. Reacting that way is risky behaviour, and something that should be treated. It's not a good thing, or something we should say is "ok"
If I walked in on some sick piece of crap molesting my kids my reaction would be instant and ferocious.
No right or wrong involved, no justification, no good idea.
When I am faced with an urgent situation I tend to go into fix it mode and that mode does not include blind rage.You call this an “Urgent Situation”? It not a smacking leaking roof, for buggers sake….
Reacting that way is risky behaviour, and something that should be treatedYou’re so far removed from reality! Do you think people carry a bloody shrink around in their pocket?
“Oh please treat me before I kick the living sh!t out of this sick #### I just caught molesting my kids.
Like hell……smash heads, ask questions later.