NorthOfNorth wrote on Nov 15
th, 2012 at 6:38am:
While we often imagine the self/ego/I to have substance, we nevertheless and paradoxically, have a very arbitrary perception of where 'I' stops and 'Other' starts.
While we often claim good luck to be good management (i.e. the 'I' acted upon the other to create favourable circumstances), we often dismiss bad luck as something that happens to us and only begrudgingly accept that 'I' may have caused 'bad luck'.
We imagine 'I' to be a controller residing somewhere in the brain, always facing forward, but only consider this controller to be partially acting on the body to cause events.
But, of course, as personality disorders (such as bipolar, obsessive-compulsive) or more serious disorders (schizophrenia) indicate, the perception of the independence of 'I' and its control of its world is easily challenged.
In the case of dementia or Alzheimer's (where the sufferer may not necessarily even imagine they're suffering any loss of 'I') its easily demonstrated that the 'I' must be, ultimately, illusory and with no substance.
This is a big overstatement spun from a misunderstanding.
Just because things that we cannot prevent happen to us does not mean that we cannot prevent anything and certainly doesn't mean that we cannot act with foresight and make things happen.
We might not all be able to stop our hearts like some yogi but we can certainly 'calm ourselves'. Or stopping at the red lights is not just a arbitrary confusion about where the ego ends.
As for the will - raise your arm. What caused that? Your will.
If
you as you is arbitrary, you will raise your arms only sometimes when you want to and at other times, inexplicably, it simply wouldn't rise. But the world is not arbitrary like that.