Annie Anthrax wrote on Jan 30
th, 2012 at 9:55pm:
I haven't answered your question properly but I'm still struggling with envy. I'll deal with inspiration next.
Careful. He might think you mean you're envious of him.
Annie Anthrax wrote on Jan 30
th, 2012 at 9:24pm:
What about better than those who have succeeded?
What about half as good as those who have succeeded? I play keyboard, but I went to a David Helfgott concert a long time ago, and I remember wishing I could play half as well as he could. I was envious of his playing skills, but I wasn't envious of him as a person. In fact I was a bit embarrassed for him when he came out into the foyer and started kissing everybody in sight (both male and female). At the same time, I felt that he could get away with his eccentricities because of his brilliance as a performer.
I think that was a mixture of envy and inspiration. I don't think you can always separate the two. There was certainly no jealousy.
Envy can be a positive thing the way I've heard it being used. Now jealousy is a different matter, (that green eyed monster which doth mock the meat it feeds on) but it may come down to the way that I've heard words being used in common parlance.
Jealousy usually relates to personal possession and competition with a rival. With envy, those attributes are not present.