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skippy. Gold Member Offline Posts: 20882 Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #45 - Feb 11^th, 2012 at 2:46pm Your daughter is the most important thing in your world, OR SHE SHOULD BE,mate. Worry about your relationship with her and make sure that is as good as it can be, all the other sh it will sort it self out.
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Reply #46 - Feb 11^th, 2012 at 4:45pm

True Skippy.
My daughter is the most important thing (person) in my world now.
I've been lucky to know people who've said that they've lived a very happy life with two sets of parents and four sets of grandparents, etc.
Others have said that it was unhappiness.
(Some parents staying together can be an unhappy experience)
It would be nice to have another woman in my life, nicer still if it was the 'other' woman. But regardless, they would have to understand the importance of my daughter. I'm prepared to go without, rather than neglect my daughter's needs.

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Reply #47 - Feb 11^th, 2012 at 5:00pm

It_is_the_Darkness wrote on Feb 11^th, 2012 at 4:45pm:

True Skippy.
My daughter is the most important thing (person) in my world now.
I've been lucky to know people who've said that they've lived a very happy life with two sets of parents and four sets of grandparents, etc.
Others have said that it was unhappiness.
(Some parents staying together can be an unhappy experience)
It would be nice to have another woman in my life, nicer still if it was the 'other' woman. But regardless, they would have to understand the importance of my daughter. I'm prepared to go without, rather than neglect my daughter's needs.

Relationships are hard, mate, you gotta work on them. My son is the most important thing in the world to me, because of this I give and take with my wife a lot more than I would if I didn't have him.

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It_is_the_Darkness Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4000 in a ReTardis Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #48 - Feb 11^th, 2012 at 9:13pm All the more reason to go without I guess. Was set up, by a friend, to go on a date here with another sole parent, same football teams in common for starters. But I let the hint drop that I'm not really interested and she let me slide by.
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It_is_the_Darkness Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4000 in a ReTardis Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #49 - Feb 20^th, 2012 at 12:33pm Oh my! The 'other woman' has just made a reappearance back where it all began.
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It_is_the_Darkness Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4000 in a ReTardis Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #50 - Feb 23^rd, 2012 at 6:52pm Oh dear. The 'other' woman has been writing bad things about me upon another Forum. Did I really hurt her that bad because it didn't work out. "...by the time he realised his mistake, it was too late to turn back and now he walks forever - in shadow."
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It_is_the_Darkness Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4000 in a ReTardis Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #51 - Feb 29^th, 2012 at 7:43pm Well today I was just told my court date for Divorce is set and yesterday I was delivered my court date for an AVO. How am I doing? Well, its my own fault for getting married and falling in love. So not too well at the moment.
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cods Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 88048	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #52 - Mar 1^st, 2012 at 2:49am it doesnt look like you will be moving on anytime soon then Jas. if you carry around that "poor me" chip on your shoulder much longer you will be a basket case.. its better to have loved and lost, than to not have loved at all..
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It_is_the_Darkness Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4000 in a ReTardis Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #53 - Mar 1^st, 2012 at 9:53pm Actually Cods, I think its more like "Ignorance is Bliss."
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Annie Anthrax Gold Member Offline Posts: 7062 Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #54 - Mar 3^rd, 2012 at 10:56am Why an AVO?
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Grey Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 5341 Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #55 - Mar 3^rd, 2012 at 11:06am Annie Anthrax wrote on Jan 26^th, 2012 at 1:00pm: Quote: I think I have a 2% chance. I think you're being optimistic. Quite
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Reply #56 - Mar 3^rd, 2012 at 12:58pm

The AVO is because a Writing friend told me to do a Blog for some therapeutic Writing. A lot of my Writing can be dark, brutal, confronting - which has got some amazing reactions and positive feedback.
So I wrote a short peice based upon the Nick Cave & Kylie Minogue collaboration song. Where I was charged for the murder of the 'other woman' whose body was found in some Wetlands. I guess it was my way of trying to kill the 'need' for her. I deleted the post after a few days - BUT, the other woman ended up being alerted to it and took it as a DEATH THREAT and along with other efforts to contact her (very minimal mind you - respecting her request to be left alone by the majority and respecting my need to get her back in as little a way as possible).

I guess though that since we had the 'fight' - I've been on the losing end and now I have lost the fight now that the Police have given me the [L]oser Certificate (AVO).

The horrible thing about this is that just as my now Ex-Wife has made a big change in my life in regards to my Daughter, this 'other woman' ("Soulmate" in her own words) seems to have a real big effect on me for some reason - but what?
I've been obsessed before. Which is being just upset.
Its never affected me like this before. (I wont go into detail) Where my health and life have suffered.

I sometimes wonder if I should 'contest' this AVO?
...anyway, how could I harm her unless she drove all the way up here to go to the Wetlands - wouldn't she be stalking me? Wink

Everything has gone so sour. Sad

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It_is_the_Darkness Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4000 in a ReTardis Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #57 - Mar 3^rd, 2012 at 3:57pm Well I've got someone to request for me for the AVO to be cancelled and I will respect the wishes unofficially under similar circumstances. I didn't really want to go down and see her again, under such circumstance and especially when I would be forced to contest the AVO.
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Reply #58 - Mar 6^th, 2012 at 11:48am

It_is_the_Darkness wrote on Jan 27^th, 2012 at 9:40am:

Wow. First time 'she' came back in my dream last night. A very wonderful and affectionate moment, but that wasn't before we had to have it out.
Sad I know - just a dream.

I know you all may dissagree here (I think?) but it is cruel for someone to find 'true love' after they are married and crueler still to have that 'true love' slip from their fingers. I'm 40+ ...haven't I waited long enough?
My soon former (few months to go) wife and mother of my daughter? Well, originally she was upset and didn't want to loose me. But once she realised that the 'other woman' had moved on, she said over the phone from a neighbours (big) house (his wife left him too. Although he earned $100,000+, she said there was no 'spark') that "She never really loved me. She just didn't want to see me in love with 'her'."
Ouch.

So Annie. By all means, get that Cat-o-9-tails out and whip me into shape here! What am I missing?

Two nights with a couple of experienced fire breathing whores, and a months subscription to an internet porn site will have you back in the game in no time.

Your just feeling unwanted right now.

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It_is_the_Darkness Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 4000 in a ReTardis Gender:	Re: Jasignature got 'double-whammy'. Reply #59 - Mar 7^th, 2012 at 4:24pm Going down to Melbourne (Court) this month. There I will admit defeat and surrender. I lost the fight and now accept the AVO ...the [L]oser Certificate with utter humiliation. ...she'll come back to me though.
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