I'm married to a much younger female, but I don't think I could have "shown her a thing or two" in regards to sex if I was still a virgin.

It_is_the_Darkness wrote on Mar 29^th, 2011 at 1:57pm:


I agree. I think the younger man has a lot to offer the more mature woman and vice versa. Men of a similar age tend to be getting a bit bored with life - and the same can apply to the woman, but a younger partner is often more sensitive, receptive and prepared to take chances.

I must say that I am disappointed in women who feel the need for plastic surgery. It is really sad when women fail to recognize the 'beauty' that comes from within eventually.

- Jas

Interesting remarks Jas.

My gorgeous hairdresser is my age ie 40 and she "looks" 27. Not much of her is real though .. and she is enslaved to the never ending process of procedure after procedure in an attempt to MAINTAIN previous work done.

She isn't happy (well that is what she tells me).

Food for thought hey.

Thats the problem with this (over-populated) planet. No-one knows how to "grow old gracefully". The fear of such a death is twisting and rotting people from within.
I understand the need of a breast reduction, in regards to back-pain.
Such a job is justified. But to go through such 'vain' acts for just looking younger is just pathetic.
EG: Working in South-West Private Hospital. Case of two patients. One patient was 40-50 years of age and just recieved a Face-lift,etc. The other was a little old lady. For some reason, most staff preferred to attend to the buzzer of the little old lady, rather than the face-lift lady. Why? Because the little old lady with all her wrinkles was expressing a beauty that comes from the inside. The lady with the face-lift had the most hideous personality and ugly attitude - pure vanity.
Look beautiful and young for older people, not beautiful and young for younger people.
When I work with younger guys - I feel and act older/wiser. When I work with older guys - I feel and act younger/stronger. I play it as it comes with every day. I don't try to set it in stone like a control freak.

Most of these 'operations' and Medical procedures are emanating out of the USA (famed for ecstacy and crack, etc) . A nation that is more apt at winning wars than practicing good Medicine. Its a shame Australia follows such a nation Medically - just because they speak the same language - pity really, because other (non-anglo saxon) nations speak English too and the USA is considered a 3rd World Medical nation. You don't see 1st World Medical nations like Switzerland, Cuba, Germany, Sweden endorse such pathetic operations.

Grow old gracefully my dears.
People will love you more for it in the long run when it matters most.

Delta Goodrem and that other UK dude have finally split. They blame distance, career, etc.

I guess Long Distance Relationships are a rare thing to achieve these days. Funny though - there are many couples getting together from a long distance originally because of such things as the Internet. USA woman marries NZ man thanks to Online Dating, etc.

Dante Allegheri never needed to 'be with' Beatrice. His love for her, he poured into his famous "The Divine Comedy" books. He married another woman to share his house, bed, children, etc. Beatrice married someone else, etc.

You can have a long distance 'relationship' with a woman, but I doubt it will be a sexual one. It doesn't need to be sexual to be love does it?

Lisa Jones wrote on Mar 23^rd, 2011 at 12:01pm:



I've done long distance relationship before and I thought it was a good idea having my gf in some other country and while I was here doing mr-nice-guy and not giving in to temptation but what the heck, it was just a waste since I've heard and seen on her pics she was hanging out with some person whom she meet and I was really pissed because of that since she removed her status on facebook to single instead of in relationship with..

So after that I never engaged in long distance relationship

I think long distance relationships have extra hurdles to overcome.

I thank God that my husband and I originally lived close to each other. It just made everything so much easier for us  .. esp at the beginning.