Ex Dame Pansi wrote on Mar 1
st, 2011 at 7:22am:
Yes. It is a phobia after all. They just need some counselling to come to grips with it.
I saw a person with a fear of spiders, is it arachnophobia, and she had to look at the spider in a glass jar, next step to touch the jar, then they let the spider out on the table, and eventually she allowed the spider to crawl on her arm.
The homophobes could watch videos, then go to a gay bar, then talk to a gay couple and finally spend a few hours with the gay couple until they realise there is nothing to be afraid of.
Like a 12 step program lol

Good one Pansi.
I think homophobia is the wrong term as applied to most heterosexual men. The correct term would be something like homoaidea, where the suffix derives from the Greek word for revulsion.
If we see two men kissing, we have a feeling of "Oh yuck" rather than "Aw geez, I'm scared". But let's face it, I'd have a very similar feeling at the thought of either Julia Gillard or Tony Abbot getting down and dirty.
When it comes to women, I think that most women tend to have an easier time, and some are actually attracted to powder puffs because they don't feel threatened in any way.
On the whole though, I tend to rely on my rationality rather than my gut feeling. They don't really do any harm, and they bring us some absolutely marvellous art and design work
In some cases, there may be some actual homophobia, particularly if the person is unsure of his sexuality and wants to think of himself as being on this side of the fence.
It's a strange thing, because Ancient Greek and Etruscan societies didn't have any such hang ups. One Etruscan mural from Tarquinia shows a chariot race, and two young men going playing the Etruscan game of chocolate salami in full view of other spectators.