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Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:28am
 

This one I fully believe, with my experiences with brits.
Its in their psychioology and weather.


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LONDON: Millions of British people are unhappy, isolated and unable to cope with profound changes in the workplace, relationships and family life, according to a study.

It portrays Britain as a psychologically fragile society in which increased wealth has been accompanied by soaring levels of individual isolation and stress.

Although welfare services have made big strides in tackling material poverty, they have failed to get a grip on the growing problems of mental illness and distress caused by the rise of individualism and family breakdown, it says.

''The UK [is a] largely happy country, but one with many unhappy people … too many parts of British society are brittle, vulnerable to shocks, stressed and … close to the edge,'' says the report, published yesterday by the Young Foundation and backed by 13 big charitable foundations.

The report argues that the welfare state has evolved to meet physical and material needs such as providing enough to eat, places to live and cures for illness. But despite material abundance, society's ability to meet psychological and psycho-social needs ''appears to have declined''.

Many people are more vulnerable to life shocks such as bereavement, unemployment and relationship breakdown, it says, because traditional social networks from the church to the family have declined.

''Some of the shock absorbers - from faith to family - that helped us cope in the past have atrophied,'' the study says.




http://www.smh.com.au/world/living-on-the-brink-britons-unhappy-lonely-and-unabl...
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Reply #1 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:32am
 
Ah well... Maybe a drunken rampage across continental Europe over Christmas will cheer them up... It usually does... Grin
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Reply #2 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:42am
 
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Its in their psychioology and weather.



Yes it is.  The weather is so gloomy most of the time, but they are known generally to be whingers. Maybe it's because life is so easy now for them they have nothing to struggle for anymore.

They are not alone in family breakdowns and mental illness - it's everywhere now - even here.  10% of our population is supposed to be mentally ill.
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Reply #3 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:55am
 
NorthOfNorth wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:32am:
Ah well... Maybe a drunken rampage across continental Europe over Christmas will cheer them up... It usually does... Grin



The younger Brits (men at least) seem to target Estonia and Latvia these days. The price of living is low, and the women are 'available'.

I stayed in a fairly affluent region when I was there this year (NE Scotland), so all I saw was optimism.

Sprint - It's much like Kiwis in terms of the weather influence. They love to winge too. Of course, they have the added problem of Selenium deficiency. They just drop like flies when a mild cold does the rounds  Grin

They can't handle the heat either. Anything above 25 and - Oh shut! we'll hev ta turn the ear condutioning on  Cheesy
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Reply #4 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:14am
 
muso wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:55am:
NorthOfNorth wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:32am:
Ah well... Maybe a drunken rampage across continental Europe over Christmas will cheer them up... It usually does... Grin



The younger Brits (men at least) seem to target Estonia and Latvia these days.

Where all you'll hear at 2:00 AM over a crash of broken glass is "Fook off, coont... Don't forget who won the fookin war".
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Ticking away the moments that make up a dull day
You fritter and waste the hours in an offhand way.
Kicking around on a piece of ground in your home town
Waiting for someone or something to show you the way.

Tired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch the rain.
You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today.
And then one day you find ten years have got behind you.
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun.

So you run and you run to catch up with the sun but it's sinking
Racing around to come up behind you again.
The sun is the same in a relative way but you're older,
Shorter of breath and one day closer to death.

Every year is getting shorter never seem to find the time.
Plans that either come to naught or half a page of scribbled lines
Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way
The time is gone, the song is over,
Thought I'd something more to say.


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Reply #6 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:59am
 
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Reply #7 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:18pm
 
mantra wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:42am:
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Its in their psychioology and weather.



Yes it is.  The weather is so gloomy most of the time, but they are known generally to be whingers. Maybe it's because life is so easy now for them they have nothing to struggle for anymore.

They are not alone in family breakdowns and mental illness - it's everywhere now - even here.  10% of our population is supposed to be mentally ill.





mantra,

Looking at the general state of the 'West', i woulda put the figure of mental illness as being much, much, higher.

Mankind, is on a slippery slope, and everybody, is trying so hard, to enjoy the 'ride' down,
....to the lowest moral common denominator.          Cheesy

How low can we go???

Godless creatures.

Reaping, what we have chosen to sow.






2 Timothy 3:1
This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2  For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
3  Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
4  Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;

That description, doesn't sound at all, like the world that mankind has made, does it!
/sarc off

God's warning, to those with eyes to see,
And when you see all of this 'fruit' on the 'fig tree', know that 'summer' is near.


Matthew 24:32
Now learn a parable of the fig tree; When his branch is yet tender, and putteth forth leaves, ye know that summer is nigh:
33  So likewise ye, when ye shall see all these things, know that it is near, even at the doors.

Psalms 1:1
Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.


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"....And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead."
Luke 16:31
 
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Reply #8 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:34pm
 

off topic comment yadda

also repeatative, overbearing  and unoriginal
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Reply #9 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:53pm
 
Sprintcyclist wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:34pm:

off topic comment yadda


also repeatative, overbearing  and unoriginal





sprint,

Only so much as you are speaking to the symptom.

While i presume to speak to the cause.



....but i realise, that my opinion is not respected.

Yadda, the village loon.        Cheesy



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"....And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead."
Luke 16:31
 
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Reply #10 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:44pm
 
Yadda wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:53pm:
....but i realise, that my opinion is not respected.

Yadda, the village loon.        Cheesy




Actually no - I thought it was rather nice to have some scripture quoted for a change  Roll Eyes
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Reply #11 - Dec 8th, 2009 at 7:02pm
 
and they say it is the lowest form of wit?
I can't agree, I often find it hilarious.

I also cannot agree with the findings of the study about brits, now I have not been there for nearly 30 years, but I doubt the "basic' Psychology of a nation would have altered that dramatically.
I found brits to be pretty fatalistic, but also madly keen for a bit of fun, and the party life is great.
Girls are pretty, and friendly, guys are up for a chat, or a drink, or a game of cricket or footy, in fact, they were pretty bloody much like us aussies, so if some wacker wants to try and portray them as something other than that, then either things have dramatically changed for the worse, or he is stretching the bounds of credibility.
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Reply #12 - Dec 9th, 2009 at 8:48am
 
muso wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:44pm:
Yadda wrote on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:53pm:
....but i realise, that my opinion is not respected.

Yadda, the village loon.        Cheesy




Actually no - I thought it was rather nice to have some scripture quoted for a change
  Roll Eyes




Har, har, har, ....it is to laugh.




There is nothing wrong with just a lil instruction from the Bible muso.      Grin

And even some of our most celebrated lyricist's have been inspired from its pages,

Ecclesiastes 3:1
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2  A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3  A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4  A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5  A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6  A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7  A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8  A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.



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Reply #13 - Dec 9th, 2009 at 10:45am
 
I would agree with the strust of that report.

I would suggest that our current condition, the malaise of our 'Western' culture, worldwide, is the result of, our wholesale renunciation of those influences which laid down the 'foundations', and guided, our adopted cultural mores.

But in recent decades we [in the 'West'] have chosen to renounce the Judaeo-Christian influences which motivated, and ispired our forefathers.

Q.
Why have we chosen to do that?

e.g. abandoning our respect for such things as the Bible, which i would argue, played no small role, in inspiring our forefathers love of truth and justice.      see #1 below

I would argue, that the content of, and the principles, which the Bible contains was the 'ROCK' of our confidence, and our success [as individuals].

But no more.

Today, we have lost THAT inner confidence, which comes from respect for the TRUTH.



It seems arguable [to me at least!] that our former [and formerly held in high regard], Juedeo-Christian culture and its moral influences, which we looked to, for societal guidance, indeed served us well.

And that those inherent principles [of seeking truth and justice, and abhorring falsehood and cruelty] which foundation Judaeo-Christian culture so strongly embraces, helped to secure many of the public institutions which were subsequently established, institutions which we have come to recognise, as underpinning our societal stability.

But today, many of us have come to abhor [with a hatred!] those 'beginnings', which had such an influence upon our success as individuals, and as a culture.

Is this because we, today, have judged that those sound moral principles, that we learned / inherited from our forebears and which served them [and us!] well, are no longer needed, perhaps because those 'old fashioned' moral principles are now regarded as 'inconvenient', to us???



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While our culture in the past was never a perfect one, our forefathers at least aspired to the high ideals and principles, which are clearly enunciated within the Judaeo-Christian 'ethic'.



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Reply #14 - Dec 9th, 2009 at 12:08pm
 
Yadda wrote on Dec 9th, 2009 at 10:45am:
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While our culture in the past was never a perfect one, our forefathers at least aspired to the high ideals and principles, which are clearly enunciated within the Judaeo-Christian 'ethic'.

Roll Eyes

And when Empress Maria Theresa proposed abolishing torture within her realm, as a means for extracting "truth" from victims, her biggest critics were the church fathers.
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