muso wrote on Jan 14^th, 2010 at 7:45am:



Oh....

muso - this thread is about what makes a woman sexy.

that is my answer

What makes a woman sexy is a sexy man.   

Hmmm?, methinks that some here are mixing up sexy with loving, and lovable.

Someone nominated Penelope Cruz as being sexy, which is hard to argue against, even though I find her looks a little strange, a bit like she has all the right bits, but they are not quite put together right to deliver that idealised concept of female perfection.
Personally, I think that this imperfectness possibly raises her up in the sexy stakes, because she is someone we could identify ourselves as being within our reach, while the absolute "perfect" beauties are unattainable.

So basically sexy for a guy means nothing more than how ferkable they think a woman is, or rather how much they would wish to get down and dirty with them.

There are innumerable women I would consider sexy, but far fewer I would consider lovable, and the simple fact is we are looking for that confluence of a woman who is totally lovable, and also highly desirable sexually.

Another element of sexy is the fun component, and women that you can envisage as being that little bit wild, and unpredictable, also adds a few extra points to the sexy tally.

So I would break it down as being about;
Looks-----------30%
Available-------50%
Personality-----10%
with the other 10% made up of things like physical characteristics you personally fixate on, like boobs, or backsides, or even feet or footwear for some, or leather apparel for others, lol


So my ideal woman is pretty, slimmish, outgoing, funny, smart and flexible, in every way.

Both, of course, we are talking sexy here, and we know that our minds create the scene, but our bodies have to then put it into action, so to speak.

You obviously have not been watching the same movies as me then Auzgurl, I see women remove their spectacles and shake out there hair and they transform from geeks to goddesses in a split second.

What's that, you meant in the real world, not just in crappy hollywood teen flicks?

Well I think it still applies, but probably takes a bit longer.

Yes you are agelessly sexy Auzgurl no doubt about that, but talking about what is sexy and what is not sexy, is not very sexy IMO.

Sexy doesn't need to try to give the 'orn lke strippers and such, because they aren't really sey when it comes down to it. Sexy is umm maybe a recognition of what may align with yourself and your own projected wants or needs for the future.

....Nope, I'm totally wrong there. Sexy is Salma Hayek in "From dusk 'til dawn" Anybody seen that one? It's sexy personified.  
Did you see that dance? Damn that was the sexiest thing I've ever seen!!



That's what I'm talkin' about!

a great many things, such as boobs, bums and legs, how she dresses.