fakir
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First of all, there's nothing to flame. I've lived in Australia for over 20 years and the only time in my life that I wasn't taunted was during University when I predominantly hung out with "my own kind" - go figure. I wasn't about to waste the better part of my life trying to fit in with whiteys. What's there to flame? I'm not going around insulting everyone, I was the one racially abused for the better part of my years in Australia, and I am just venting with the hope that the ignorant whiteys will realize what damage they are "generally" doing to non-white Australians.
The only person that can qualify to rebut me is a non-white Australian who has lived a number of years in another English speaking white-majority country who has therefore the insight of comparison.
Here are some more examples of subtle and not so subtle racism in Australia (and mind you, I admit I am drawing from my own experiences):
1) The typical aussie "party" consists of hanging out in the backyard over a bbq and beers. Quite often if I'm invited to a white majority party but I hardly know anyone there - if I stand in a circle with mostly strangers - I will be largely ignored in terms of eye contact. It's as if people are too scared to talk to me because they can't relate to me or something like that. Don't for a minute think that I invite xenophobia by dressing weird, I am 100% Australian in culture, dress and speech (even then if I wasn't, I shouldn't be ostracized, but Australian culture hasn't advanced to that stage yet - let's just stick to accepting someone who at least fits in culturally!)
When I first came to Canada, I didn't know anyone, and so because of my Australian experiences I was very paranoid about parties with white majorities (and therefore I was especially cognicent of exclusion). To my utmost surprise however, when I joined a circle of strangers people gave me equal "eye time" and I felt like I was treated like an equal. How do you think that makes me feel?
2) I was working in Singapore for a while and my Wife told a white Australian that she was married to an Aussie. When both my Wife and the white Australian was in a gathering and I was there too, the white Australian asked where I was and my Wife pointed in my direction and he responded by saying "I don't see anyone". At which point he realized his faux pas and his own deep-seated racism. How do you think that makes me feel? The first Australian I come across overseas who has not previously met me, and it's a fking racist.
Now I don't think white Australians are bad people, it's just that environmental factors leads MOST white Australians to develop xenophobic and racist tendencies. Until these tendencies are brought out in the open, admitted, discussed and vilified, things will never change. One MUST recognize this shamefulness - that is the first step to change. Occasionally something really bad might happen and you will see the community rally around the minorities in support - but heck, it's not the really bad stuff that affects most people of colour. It's the really subtle stuff that isolates and excludes us.
As an example, when I was in Singapore, my Wife explained to me the difference between Asian culture and white Australian culture. In Asia, if you're the odd man out, the majority will make an effort to make you feel welcome. In Australia, white Aussies expect the outsider to fit in and assimilate and will generally make no effort to make you feel welcome. Do you as a white Australian realize that or see that? Probably not because you're on the inside and you can't compare one cave with another cave. You really need to be on the outside looking in (or be an objective person by nature) to see that it's cultural elements like these that contribute to white Australian racism.
I for one still have bitterness about the whole thing even though I have a wonderful and successful life in Canada. I feel bitter because I feel compelled by my own self-esteem to reject my Australianness because I have never resolved my racist experiences with white Australia whilst white Canada has embraced me. Therefore I feel my childhood has been lost as a result. It's in times of success and comfort that one has the time to reflect back on life and wonder about how things have unravelled. It's nice to come back to Australia after 10 years and see that things have progressed, but when I came back to Australia I took a good look around and saw posters with only white faces, TV shows with only white people and I thought bugger - how long do these people take to accept non-whites? Couple that with my cousin denying that things haven't improved and I see that I may never see a tolerant white Australian society in my lifetime.
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