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Oct 2nd, 2007 at 10:08pm
 
Do online relationships help in real life relationships ??

Do they improve our emotional quotient, or make us worse than before ?
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Reply #1 - Oct 3rd, 2007 at 9:22am
 
Depends what you mean about online relationships Sprintcyclist.  Do you mean romantic online relationships or just plain communication online?

I've found that being on Cracker has toughened me up quite a lot.  I used to get very angry at some of the insults, but lately I find most of them funny and I get a good laugh, although obviously I still lose it occasionally.  But if you want a bit of light entertainment - online forums are good for that.

As far as romantic online relationships - I've had a couple which were fun and the males were attractive and great with words (surprisingly).  The communication was a  pleasant emotional experience considering I was experimenting with this at the time. 

Generally though - for some people - online relationships are very good for us emotionally if we don't become too personally involved or take it too seriously.

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Reply #2 - Oct 3rd, 2007 at 10:44am
 
Sprintcyclist wrote on Oct 2nd, 2007 at 10:08pm:
Do online relationships help in real life relationships ??

Do they improve our emotional quotient, or make us worse than before ?



Sprint yes I believe sometimes they can enhance our emotional quotient but sometimes they can have the opposite effect.

So yes they can deplete our emotional quotient also.

I have experienced both on these forums.

Going to what Mantra said- I have met some very articulate and charming males online- a very nice experience.


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Reply #3 - Oct 3rd, 2007 at 8:36pm
 
Online relationships are a fast way to heartache.
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Reply #4 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 9:29pm
 
You know how they used to say TV was company for lonely old people? The net is potentially better company in my view but also potentially worse. Depends what you find and how yoru judgement is and where you go and what you do and who with. You may get support you would not have otherwise. Or you may becoem over indulgent in focussing on personal problems so that you magnify them. You may share interests with those of like interests- be it science or knitting or fishing...  Or you may have a series of desperate cyber sex encounters and begin not to be able to relate to real people.

I fell in love on the net and am happily married. I have semi-counselled various folk with problems. i speak to the kids on the net when they are at my ex's house at times. We share photos of the new baby on the net with my and my partner's family.

So it can be good and it can be bad. It's kind of like a lot of life- what you make it. ...
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Reply #5 - Oct 14th, 2007 at 7:45pm
 
I met my fiancee on the net too. Is a good place to meet people.
Unfortunately it can also be a place where untoward people can meet and obsess on their unsocial illegal interests too.
maybe, it is a place that enables more extremist behaviour ? At this stage anyway.

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Reply #6 - Oct 15th, 2007 at 9:22am
 
how can looking online be worse than looking in a pub?
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Reply #7 - Oct 15th, 2007 at 10:05am
 
You get the occasional reality check in a pub.
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Reply #8 - Oct 16th, 2007 at 10:59pm
 
Online was good for me.
Other areas I would recommend are "learn to dance classes" and "yoga" classes.


In the words of a (female) friend of mine, a guy at a "learn to dance class  would be "swooped up"
My advice from experience, you will be outnumbered about 8 to 1.  Take your time.
In joga classes, expect about being outnumbered about 20 to 1.
I wish I had gone to either of those ............
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Reply #9 - Dec 5th, 2007 at 12:36pm
 
No charges, but serious consequences in case of mean Internet postings that preceded suicide

http://www.smh.com.au/news/breaking-news/no-charges-but-serious-consequences-in-case-of-mean-internet-postings-that-preceded-suicide/2007/12/04/1196530640975.html

There will be no criminal charges in the case of a 13-year-old girl who killed herself last year after receiving cruel messages on the Internet. There have, however, been consequences.

People online have expressed outrage against those involved in sending mean messages to Megan Meier, identifying some of them. The family authorities say was behind the fake MySpace profile where the messages originated has reported its home being hit by paintballs and getting a brick thrown through a window.

St. Charles County prosecutor Jack Banas said it's his understanding that a former friend of Megan's whose family was behind the fake profile is now being home-schooled. He added that a young employee of the girl's mother who was also involved is hospitalized and receiving psychiatric treatment.

Megan's relatives, still mourning their loss, are working to strengthen laws related to Internet harassment and better protect children on social networking sites. Her parents separated after her death and plan to divorce.



Missouri panel proposes changes in harassment law, inspired by teen's suicide after Web taunts

http://news.smh.com.au/missouri-panel-proposes-changes-in-harassment-law-inspired-by-teens-suicide-after-web-taunts/20071117-1axg.html

Adults who use the Internet to harass children could be charged with a felony if Missouri lawmakers agree with a proposal made Tuesday by a state panel formed after a taunted teenager's suicide.

Gov. Matt Blunt's task force on Internet harassment met for the final time, putting the finishing touches on a plan that will be submitted to the governor. Committee members did not say when a final draft would be ready.
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Reply #10 - Feb 12th, 2008 at 12:39pm
 
Classic Liberal wrote on Oct 15th, 2007 at 9:22am:
how can looking online be worse than looking in a pub?


In a pub you can tell whether the person is drunk or not (and serious or not).
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Reply #11 - Feb 12th, 2008 at 12:40pm
 
I gave up on online relationships when I kept getting 20 year old photos.
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Reply #12 - Feb 12th, 2008 at 5:29pm
 
Ray_A wrote on Feb 12th, 2008 at 12:40pm:
I gave up on online relationships when I kept getting 20 year old photos.


So you got all my pictures then?  Why didn't you call?
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Reply #13 - Feb 13th, 2008 at 7:04am
 
deepthought wrote on Feb 12th, 2008 at 5:29pm:
So you got all my pictures then?  Why didn't you call?


My motto now is "what you see is what you get". Only tried online relationships for about six months after divorce. Once I got past that I decided the single life, and freedom, was too good. I meet lots of women in my job, but still not tempted to give up this blessed freedom.
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Reply #14 - Feb 13th, 2008 at 7:06am
 
Ray_A wrote on Feb 13th, 2008 at 7:04am:
deepthought wrote on Feb 12th, 2008 at 5:29pm:
So you got all my pictures then?  Why didn't you call?


My motto now is "what you see is what you get". Only tried online relationships for about six months after divorce. Once I got past that I decided the single life, and freedom, was too good. I meet lots of women in my job, but still not tempted to give up this blessed freedom.


I was kidding Ray, I meant 'why didn't you call me'.  You will see that I don't take life too seriously.

Singledom is good but I would not replace my relationship with it mate.  I love being deeply involved.
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