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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41825 Gender:	An argument is healthy for a relationship Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:08pm Is what I have heard . Better to have a honest disagreement, than harbour resentment.
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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #1 - Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:18pm Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:08pm: Is what I have heard . Better to have a honest disagreement, than harbour resentment. then why do you?
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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41825 Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #2 - Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:27pm off topic
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freediver Gold Member Offline www.ozpolitic.com Posts: 53204 At my desk.	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #3 - Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:29pm You two have had a healthy relationship lately then.
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DILLIGAF Gold Member Offline Posts: 1259 The greens are red Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #4 - Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:34pm Seems ive missed something while i was away.
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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41825 Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #5 - Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:35pm tx freediver yes, sparkingly healthy
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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #6 - Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:42pm oceanz wrote on Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:18pm: Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:08pm: Is what I have heard . Better to have a honest disagreement, than harbour resentment. then why do you? very much on topic Id say..
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Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship
Reply #7 - Aug 17^th, 2007 at 2:33pm

Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 16^th, 2007 at 3:08pm:

Is what I have heard .
Better to have a honest disagreement, than harbour resentment.

Yes, but only really if the matter has significance for you, and you have an entitlement to an opinion.

For example if he wears black socks and you think wearing grey ones will get him promoted then his opinion should count more in the first place as the issue is about what he does, his work and his promotion (or not), not yours. Similarly if he thinks you should wear grey and you hate it.

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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41825 Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #8 - Aug 17^th, 2007 at 3:24pm I disagree. She has an interest in the promotion. in the main, women are better colour coordinators. I'ld wear grey.
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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #9 - Aug 17^th, 2007 at 4:03pm Sprintcyclist wrote on Aug 17^th, 2007 at 3:24pm: I disagree. She has an interest in the promotion. in the main, women are better colour coordinators. I'ld wear grey. wheres my smiley face
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cautious connie Full Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 215	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #10 - Aug 17^th, 2007 at 4:08pm If you dont want to wear grey socks to get the promotion then its up to you.
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Reply #11 - Aug 17^th, 2007 at 8:26pm

cautious connie wrote on Aug 17^th, 2007 at 4:08pm:

If you dont want to wear grey socks to get the promotion then its up to you.

Arguements are only healthy if the 2 involved actually listen to each other...that means hear what the other has to say with a spirit of openess..otherwise its just a bunch of words dispersing inot the greater beyond with noone to hear but the birds and higher life forms on Mars and other random planets

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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41825 Gender:	Re: An argument is healthy for a relationship Reply #12 - Aug 18^th, 2007 at 1:43pm oceans , your smiley face is in the same place as my deleted comments, unanswered questions and forgiveness are .
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