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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Is Pornography cheating Aug 12^th, 2007 at 6:11pm Is veiwing porn considred to be cheating on your partner? Would we consider that to be cheating as men or is just a right of passage as a man in our world. There is plenty of opportunity to access it on the net etc..so technology has modernised a very old phenomena. comments>?
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ex-member DonaldTrump Gold Member Offline Oh mere mortals, open your eyes! Posts: 1995 Overseas Gender:	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #1 - Aug 13^th, 2007 at 12:09am I don't consider porn cheating... I just consider the men who do so pathetic. Who needs porn? It screws the brain up.
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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41824 Gender:	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #2 - Aug 13^th, 2007 at 8:38am women are exclusively the ones who fantasise about other men while actually making love. Men are the ones that are genuinely there. that's cheating of the 1st degree. Course, because women do it, it's different ........... two faced
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Reply #3 - Aug 13^th, 2007 at 2:23pm

ex-member DonaldTrump wrote on Aug 13^th, 2007 at 12:09am:

I don't consider porn cheating... I just consider the men who do so pathetic. Who needs porn? It screws the brain up.

Hi DT.

it was a rhetorical question DT and from what I know a lot of men and indeed women use porn.

I dont have an opinion as to wether its right or wrong just wondering what pple think.

If pple use it, its natural..goes back to a very early time in the human lifespan...centuries.

Porn is normal..I would imagine.

I dont consider porn to be cheating in the literal sense..addiction is something else of course.

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cautious connie Full Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 215	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #4 - Aug 13^th, 2007 at 9:42pm I'd feel upset about it. I have asked to be shown any he looks at inadvertently or otherwise. So kinda cheating yes, but also kinda not.
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Reply #5 - Aug 13^th, 2007 at 9:50pm

cautious connie wrote on Aug 13^th, 2007 at 9:42pm:

I'd feel upset about it. I have asked to be shown any he looks at inadvertently or otherwise. So kinda cheating yes, but also kinda not.

Yes I tend to agree..it is normal to feel somewhat betrayed by the fact he feels he needs to or wants to veiw this material. A form of insecurity on my behalf I guess.

I kind of get also that he is not doing it to upset me by the same token..its something men do...and they may not see why we see it as a problem.

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Reply #6 - Aug 13^th, 2007 at 10:51pm

oceanz wrote on Aug 12^th, 2007 at 6:11pm:

Is veiwing porn considred to be cheating on your partner?

Would we consider that to be cheating as men or is just a right of passage as a man in our world.

There is plenty of opportunity to access it on the net etc..so technology has modernised a very old phenomena.

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No, but it is not honourable.

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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #7 - Aug 13^th, 2007 at 11:56pm Quote: No, but it is not honourable. I have to say Im surprised by the comments . A pleasant surprise,.
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Reply #8 - Mar 30^th, 2008 at 6:46pm

Is Pornography cheating
Aug 12th, 2007, 6:11pm

Is veiwing porn considred to be cheating on your partner?

Would we consider that to be cheating as adults that vewing porn is considered as cheating as much si as actual cheating itself.

There is plenty of opportunity to access it on the net etc..so technology has modernised a very old phenomena.

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Classic Liberal Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 769 sydney Gender:	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #9 - Mar 30^th, 2008 at 7:28pm i consider it cheating in teh second degree, its the swae as fantasizing about other etc or wanting to be with someone else. its not as bad as actually doing it which is cheating in the first degree
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Sappho Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 1406 Gender:	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #10 - Mar 30^th, 2008 at 9:32pm LOL... I agree with Deepthought. It's not betrayal of any kind. It is merely fanasty. As a sexual woman, I look at porn and get off on it. I know my patner has no issues, he makes reference to my web views. Very sexy.
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IQSRLOW Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 1618	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #11 - Mar 30^th, 2008 at 9:36pm No need to reply to both threads Sappho- just stick with the one that doesn't delete posts on the account of a psycho moderator
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Reply #12 - Mar 30^th, 2008 at 11:42pm

Sappho wrote on Mar 30^th, 2008 at 9:32pm:

LOL... I agree with Deepthought. It's not betrayal of any kind. It is merely fanasty.

As a sexual woman, I look at porn and get off on it. I know my patner has no issues, he makes reference to my web views. Very sexy.

I think many pple do these days sappho.

I dont have a problem with it ..
I was just wondering initially if some pple considered it cheating..clearly a lot of females/men get upset if theyre partners look at porn, as if its a betrayal.

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Reply #13 - Mar 30^th, 2008 at 11:47pm

Classic Liberal wrote on Mar 30^th, 2008 at 7:28pm:

i consider it cheating in teh second degree, its the swae as fantasizing about other etc or wanting to be with someone else. its not as bad as actually doing it which is cheating in the first degree

Ok I see what your saying, but im wondering if men and women veiw porn for the same reasons.

I think most would subscribe to the view that men are more visually appreciative than females..but that would be more a stereotype than anything else perhaps.

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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: Is Pornography cheating Reply #14 - Mar 30^th, 2008 at 11:48pm IQSRLOW wrote on Mar 30^th, 2008 at 9:36pm: No need to reply to both threads Sappho- just stick with the one that doesn't delete posts on the account of a psycho moderator IQ your welcome to post on any thread in this forum..just keep the personal insults out of it.
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