mantra wrote on Jul 27
th, 2007 at 7:47pm:
He works, pays his bills and fulfills his obligations. To me that is 1000% better than the life he led as a junkie not to mention the pain he put our family through.
But if half these people can lead some sort of responsible life - good on them and good on the program.
I guess it must be hard to have to say "well he's better than he was" sometimes, I know, you have to accept that the person you love has no will to take control of his life. I'm sorry for you, but I remain unmoved on my stance, he's just piss weak.
Get a farkin life ya loser, is my advice to him, grow the bugger up and take a hard, unbiased look in the mirror.
It's when he can look in the mirror and say "you farkin useless piece of shite, you can't even take long weekend to visit your family because you need permission from a chemist". thats when he can want more for himself, and if he doesn't, well he doesn't deserve the life he has. kids with cancer deserve a shot at life they could have done something with it. Life is precious. pfffft Theres no excuses, you live and learn or you waste your life.
Sad but true.