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Re: men and love.
Reply #15 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 10:26am

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Here is the basic truth of it all.

MEN+WOMAN+SEX =LOVE.

We have only a desire to breed. ''Love'' was something invented by women to use as emotional blackmail against men.

NOW we are getting somehere near the truth!!.

So you are saying Aussie that sex and love for men are the same thing..and that women only kid themsleves?

That love and sex are one and the same and if women were honest we'd admit it?

Why then do some pple want to stay together forever..because the sex is great?

Dont get me wrong..I tend to agree,.

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Re: men and love.
Reply #16 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 10:54am

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So you are saying Aussie that sex and love for men are the same thing..and that women only kid themsleves?

Pretty much. there are some feelings on the side of the man but these are not like the females.
More for companionship than anything else. Sure im only young but ive had relationships, ive seen others in their relationships and indeed my own mother and fathers marriage.
She was far too emotional and he was more concerned with having a stable and happy life.
She ALWAYS started the fights because of ''Love''- used as an excuse.
Notice how you women always resort to ''Dont you love me anymore''? Emotional Blackmail.

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That love and sex are one and the same and if women were honest we'd admit it?

Yeah, The ultimate goal of any creature is to reproduce. Its the law of Nature.

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Why then do some pple want to stay together forever..because the sex is great?

They are compatable companions. Companionship has been misread as ''Love''.

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Dont get me wrong..I tend to agree,.

Well its a rather plausable theory isnt it?

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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41859 Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #17 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 11:03am Not always does MEN+WOMAN+SEX =LOVE. At times it is just for physical relief. At times to be close, at times to get sweaty for me, it is one of the ways of knowing I am loved, and do love.
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Reply #18 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 5:08pm

Sprintcyclist wrote on Jun 30^th, 2007 at 11:03am:

Not always does MEN+WOMAN+SEX =LOVE.
At times it is just for physical relief. At times to be close, at times to get sweaty

for me, it is one of the ways of knowing I am loved, and do love.

I just wanted to mnake it clear [i]how some men like myself get annoyed at this kind of thing

Im wondering why that is DT? you say girls are niave if they havent figured it out yet..how are they supposed to fihure it out..

If that were so easy this thread wouldnt exist.

Any pointers as to what makes it obvious to women how they can tell if he really cares a lot/loves her?

Things he does, says etc. Dt- anyone?

Men hate to be grilled about this but some women hate not knowing!

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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41859 Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #19 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 5:25pm thought you women were meant to be the "perceptive" ones ?
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cautious connie Full Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 215	Re: men and love. Reply #20 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 9:30pm sex and love are not the same, but they can be related, and both are better when they are.
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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41859 Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #21 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 11:01pm Excellent posting Connie. Superb
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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #22 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 11:33pm Sprintcyclist wrote on Jun 30^th, 2007 at 11:01pm: Excellent posting Connie. Superb yes connie..superb..very insightful.
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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #23 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 11:36pm but i still tend to think that Ausiie is right when he says that sex and love are one and the same. The mind plays tricks on us. Men are sex focussed and women are love focussed..there is no love relationship without a sex component and couples would simlpy break up if there were no sex involved.
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Aussie Nationalist Ex Member Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #24 - Jun 30^th, 2007 at 11:38pm Quote: couples would simlpy break up if there were no sex involved. Nail hit on head.
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ex-member DonaldTrump Gold Member Offline Oh mere mortals, open your eyes! Posts: 1995 Overseas Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #25 - Jul 1^st, 2007 at 12:38am Quote: Quote: couples would simlpy break up if there were no sex involved. Nail hit on head. Exactly... therefore... more sex. Please speak with my girlfriend, Oceans... you need to talk her into it.
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Reply #26 - Jul 1^st, 2007 at 1:04am

ex-member DonaldTrump wrote on Jul 1^st, 2007 at 12:38am:

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couples would simlpy break up if there were no sex involved.

Nail hit on head. Cool

Exactly... therefore... more sex. Cool

Please speak with my girlfriend, Oceans... you need to talk her into it.

you are too patient Donald..it must be love.

If you cant talk her into it..Im sure I wont have any luck .

She must be special.

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Sprintcyclist Gold Member Offline OzPolitic Posts: 41859 Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #27 - Jul 1^st, 2007 at 4:03pm Donald, may be a good time to get a trained professional onto the job. Relationship counsellors are good. In the long run, it has always paid me to get a professional onto a problem ASAP. I used to hate "begging" to feel "loved". Then being ignored anyway. There is a message in that behaviour, loud and clear.
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Reply #28 - Jul 1^st, 2007 at 6:34pm

Sprintcyclist wrote on Jul 1^st, 2007 at 4:03pm:

Donald, may be a good time to get a trained professional onto the job.
Relationship counsellors are good.
In the long run, it has always paid me to get a professional onto a problem ASAP.

I used to hate "begging" to feel "loved". Then being ignored anyway.
There is a message in that behaviour, loud and clear.

Youve had counselling training Sprint..what about a counselling thread for men..or here is fine too.Maybe Donald could do with a few tips?

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oceanz Gold Member Offline Auzgurl.. Posts: 3531 Gender:	Re: men and love. Reply #29 - Jul 1^st, 2007 at 6:35pm Need any tips DT?
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