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May 16th, 2007 at 6:57pm
 
How old is too old?

My previous girlfriend was 8 years older than me, and I have a thing for older women. Mainly because they're more experienced, caring and appreciate certain qualities that younger girls overlook. Furthermore... women... from late twenties to mid-thirties.. .are more attractive IMO. I know it's a weird trait of mine.

So, is there anything wrong with aiming for older women? Not too old, Tongue but about 8-10 years older.

In saying that though, dating olde women has its consequences too. I've found that they're also 10 times more serious with a relationship, want to have kids before their body clock expires and want a 'reliable' man.
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Reply #1 - May 16th, 2007 at 10:31pm
 
hhmm, I have found a woman about my age is about right. Similar ideals, wants etc etc etc.

I am 45 now, find women in early 40's REALLY magnificant.
At work, many young women there but start to chat to them and they are just mentally and emotionally not happening.
I am hopelessy outnumbered there, but VERY nice place to work all the same.   Smiley


Younger women are very self centered. As are younger men, so a good match.
Funny thing, women are their most fertile about 17 - 18. About when men are polevaulting hourly.
I also think we shoud have kids when young.
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Reply #2 - May 17th, 2007 at 6:11am
 
Relationships between older women and younger men can be very successful and stimulating DT. I agree totally.  Older women love younger men.

An older woman can offer not only her experience, but an understanding and patience that a younger women usually can't or won't give.  On the other hand, young men are so open to new ideas and experiences and there's a vulnerability about them which is often appealing to an older woman.  They haven't become set in their ways and can show the mature woman an adulation, which of course is flattering and can rekindle emotions which she has long forgotten but the younger man is looking for.

As long as the age difference isn't too vast - and at your age 10 years difference is good, go for it and savour it.  These relationships have so much to offer and can give both parties something wonderful to remember.
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Reply #3 - May 19th, 2007 at 3:17pm
 
ex-member DonaldTrump wrote on May 16th, 2007 at 6:57pm:
How old is too old?

My previous girlfriend was 8 years older than me, and I have a thing for older women. Mainly because they're more experienced, caring and appreciate certain qualities that younger girls overlook. Furthermore... women... from late twenties to mid-thirties.. .are more attractive IMO. I know it's a weird trait of mine.

So, is there anything wrong with aiming for older women? Not too old, Tongue but about 8-10 years older.

In saying that though, dating olde women has its consequences too. I've found that they're also 10 times more serious with a relationship, want to have kids before their body clock expires and want a 'reliable' man.


Theres nothing weird about this- a lot of younger men want to experience older women, the same way a lot of girls are attracted to older men.When I was a teen,17, I was attracted to a 45 yr old man. It was weird I thought at the time. I mean there were  guys vying for my attention ,but I was fixated on this older man. Of course he knew I was a child and was careful not to compromise himself.

So we never know who or why, its all a mystery, but I think in many ways natural. Women become sexually more 'alive' at a later age than men , so they crave the virility and passion a younger man has to give-as women , it is natural that the two mesh very nicely and complement each other sexually. As the same is true for older men who want to teach and experience younger women.

Men come to sexual maturity very early, women quite a few years later. this is the reason for this.So Donald your at your sexual peak now perhaps?

Women begin to peak in theyre thirties and can go on for many years.
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Reply #4 - May 20th, 2007 at 7:36am
 
The other point you made earlier Oceans - about realistic expectations - that is the most important concern of all.  Often the older person in the relationship has them, but the younger person, being more idealistic, doesn't, and it can be hurtful and in some cases  damaging long term, depending on how intense the relationship is.

It is up to the older person to tread carefully, although obviously this can be difficult.
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Reply #5 - May 20th, 2007 at 9:18am
 


It is up to the older person to tread carefully, although obviously this can be difficult. [/quote]


I would agree with that and realistic expectations is important Mantra..
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Reply #6 - Sep 2nd, 2020 at 11:58pm
 
Mah. When I was Spirit Man of the Tribe. The magic Shell spun in my direction and for a year - I was the official 'Sperm Donor'. Females of all colours, shades, status, ages would come to me for a good seeding. Skinny ones, plump ones, tall ones. Do you really think I gave a toss about wether she was older or younger during that year??

...but then there's those who take a mile, not a metre and thus 'molest' very old people and very young people. They do not exist in the 'habitable zone'.
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Reply #7 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 9:34am
 
Jasin wrote on Sep 2nd, 2020 at 11:58pm:
Mah. When I was Spirit Man of the Tribe. The magic Shell spun in my direction and for a year - I was the official 'Sperm Donor'. Females of all colours, shades, status, ages would come to me for a good seeding. Skinny ones, plump ones, tall ones. Do you really think I gave a toss about wether she was older or younger during that year??

...but then there's those who take a mile, not a metre and thus 'molest' very old people and very young people. They do not exist in the 'habitable zone'.




Wanking on your pillow is not being a sperm donor.
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Reply #8 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 9:59am
 
LOL Bojak!
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Reply #9 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 10:42am
 
Prime Minister for Canyons wrote on Sep 3rd, 2020 at 9:34am:
Jasin wrote on Sep 2nd, 2020 at 11:58pm:
Mah. When I was Spirit Man of the Tribe. The magic Shell spun in my direction and for a year - I was the official 'Sperm Donor'. Females of all colours, shades, status, ages would come to me for a good seeding. Skinny ones, plump ones, tall ones. Do you really think I gave a toss about wether she was older or younger during that year??

...but then there's those who take a mile, not a metre and thus 'molest' very old people and very young people. They do not exist in the 'habitable zone'.




Wanking on your pillow is not being a sperm donor.

Having Gay sex like you do - isn't either.
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Reply #10 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 10:48am
 
“Isn’t either.”


Hmmm so you WERE wanking!
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Reply #11 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 11:07am
 
Jovial Monk wrote on Sep 3rd, 2020 at 10:48am:
“Isn’t either.”


Hmmm so you WERE wanking!


What. You actually believe that I did all that.
So I'm a sexual wanker compared to you and Bojack being Forum Wankers?
Well I know which one I would prefer.
Maybe we let the Women vote who the biggest Wanker is on this Forum: Me or you and Bojack.  Grin
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Reply #12 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 11:38am
 
Jasin wrote on Sep 3rd, 2020 at 10:42am:
Prime Minister for Canyons wrote on Sep 3rd, 2020 at 9:34am:
Jasin wrote on Sep 2nd, 2020 at 11:58pm:
Mah. When I was Spirit Man of the Tribe. The magic Shell spun in my direction and for a year - I was the official 'Sperm Donor'. Females of all colours, shades, status, ages would come to me for a good seeding. Skinny ones, plump ones, tall ones. Do you really think I gave a toss about wether she was older or younger during that year??

...but then there's those who take a mile, not a metre and thus 'molest' very old people and very young people. They do not exist in the 'habitable zone'.




Wanking on your pillow is not being a sperm donor.

Having Gay sex like you do - isn't either.



That cuts deep.




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Reply #13 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 11:47am
 
Jasin wrote on Sep 3rd, 2020 at 11:07am:
Jovial Monk wrote on Sep 3rd, 2020 at 10:48am:
“Isn’t either.”


Hmmm so you WERE wanking!


What. You actually believe that I did all that.
So I'm a sexual wanker compared to you and Bojack being Forum Wankers?
Well I know which one I would prefer.
Maybe we let the Women vote who the biggest Wanker is on this Forum: Me or you and Bojack.  Grin


If I were you, I'd be a tad more cautious in making that sort of challenge, especially given that Post of yours upthread, and that admission by you that you are the crazed Mellie.
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Reply #14 - Sep 3rd, 2020 at 11:54am
 
Do you think I really give a crap about what you, Monk or even Bojack think of me?
Grin
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