NorthOfNorth wrote on Apr 11
th, 2021 at 11:03am:
aquascoot wrote on Apr 11
th, 2021 at 11:00am:
untrue
when you run a business or two (like myself and the chinaman), you get the rough edges of narcissism and self obsession rubbed away pretty quickly.
you will not survive in business if you have those sort of personality flaws.
thats why you always want to run a business.
it prevents insanity
People with NPD and psychopaths get worse with human interaction, not better... Unless 'better' is defined as more adept at manipulating people.
There are so many corporate psychopaths .... that’s why they are at the top... to be in business and for success needs a bit of manipulation even being a bit ruthful.
Otherwise everyone will walk all over you/use you/compete against you.
It’s not so easy starting up or being in business in these times.
Everyone wants to make a quid off everyone else.
One year, we had a heap of wood for sale, from our own property, and because we already had it cut, dried and covered, was ready for winter, but, we sold unprecedented amounts that winter much to our surprise because it was a wet year and the other wood selling businesses could not access wood with trucks where they usually go.
Thinking nothing more of it, 2 young huffy blokes come on our property enquiring about our wood, what type and how much, but in a jealous way and their body language made me wary.
They bought none, but I since found out where they worked from and I’m thinking.... such envy/spies .... ffs!
Just because they can’t access wood .... not my problem!
I said to hubby, I’m not putting up with bad attitudes from anyone and decided to be a bit more ruthful ... with a ‘there it is, take it or leave it’ attitude. So no more nice guy or getting pushed over... had to learn to harden up a bit.
This is just a small example in life’s lessons of course.
But not all win by being a bit tough, so many business have sleazes with eases, and they coerce/rob people of hundreds of thousands for shonky investments. It’s a good con bring mr. nice guy in that scenario.