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Feb 25th, 2021 at 7:38am
 
It seems that some truth is starting to come out.

Women are the instigators in as many DV incidents as men, but hide behind the fragile female lies.

But sometimes, even they are caught out.

If truth were to be told, more DV is attributable to women than men, through their own attacks.


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Domestic violence ‘big risk for men’
JANET FIFE-YEOMANS
FATHERS are as much at risk of being the victims of prolonged intimidation and humiliation before being killed by their partners as women, an inquiry into new domestic violence laws has been told.

Over the past five years, 61 of the 146 people killed in domesticrelated homicides in the state were men, startling figures from the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research have revealed.

The Australian Brotherhood of Fathers has backed proposed new laws recognising that a pattern of coercive control including humiliation, financial abuse and constant criticism, can be classed as domestic violence the same way as physical assaults.
“Many men that seek to escape abusive relationships, can never entirely move on and heal while they still desire to be in the lives of their children,” the lobby group said.

“Many of them continue to be abused and coercively controlled by the mothers of their children.”
A NSW Coroners Court study revealed 77 out of 78 domestic violence homicides in NSW over two years were preceded by coercive control. The men’s lobby group said one example of coercive control would be a mother “continually threatening her husband that she will ruin him financially and permanently take the children from him”.

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Reply #1 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 8:33am
 
ver the past five years, 61 of the 146 people killed in domesticrelated homicides in the state were men, startling figures from the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research have revealed.



You know that figure doesn't mean 61 women were DV offenders right?
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Reply #2 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 8:34am
 
A NSW Coroners Court study revealed 77 out of 78 domestic violence homicides in NSW over two years were preceded by coercive control. The men’s lobby group said one example of coercive control would be a mother “continually threatening her husband that she will ruin him financially and permanently take the children from him”.



And on the reverse another example could be d be a husband “continually threatening his wife that she will ruin her financially and leave the children with her with no financial support”.
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Reply #3 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:07am
 
Prime Minister for Canyons wrote on Feb 25th, 2021 at 8:34am:
A NSW Coroners Court study revealed 77 out of 78 domestic violence homicides in NSW over two years were preceded by coercive control. The men’s lobby group said one example of coercive control would be a mother “continually threatening her husband that she will ruin him financially and permanently take the children from him”.



And on the reverse another example could be d be a husband “continually threatening his wife that she will ruin her financially and leave the children with her with no financial support”.



So?

Both cases don't make a right

A man should be a man and just move on, cut his losses and keep an eye open for another women, making sure the next one is happy to have him as a partner and vice versa. Of course this second go will only work if neither are mongrel bastards by nature or grown to be as such

But the man did his job in the first partnership, he provided shelter, food, money and clothing, and he fulfilled the woman's wish to have children - time to move on if there's nothing more the woman desires and the relationship goes pear shaped.

He should get another woman and make sure she's not like the first one. Same with the new woman, she must make sure the man is not abusive, the first sign of abuse, they should split up and try again with someone else

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Reply #4 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:08am
 
They definitely don't, but the OP is attempting to suggest that its women-instigated DV is as big an issue as male-instigated DV
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Reply #5 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:30am
 
Prime Minister for Canyons wrote on Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:08am:
They definitely don't, but the OP is attempting to suggest that its women-instigated DV is as big an issue as male-instigated DV



Yes but the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research said this before Valkie said anything ... and JANET FIFE-YEOMANS reported it

"FATHERS are as much at risk of being the victims of prolonged intimidation and humiliation before being killed by their partners as women"



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Reply #6 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:35am
 
Bias_2012 wrote on Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:30am:
Prime Minister for Canyons wrote on Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:08am:
They definitely don't, but the OP is attempting to suggest that its women-instigated DV is as big an issue as male-instigated DV



Yes but the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research said this before Valkie said anything ... and JANET FIFE-YEOMANS reported it

"FATHERS are as much at risk of being the victims of prolonged intimidation and humiliation before being killed by their partners as women"






Hard to tell when no link was posted.
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Reply #7 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:36am
 
Startling new figures from the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research say 61 of the 146 people killed in domestic-related homicides in the state were men.



Since I can't access the paywall, I got this.


Can we start from here?


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Reply #8 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 12:20pm
 
Prime Minister for Canyons wrote on Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:36am:
Startling new figures from the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research say 61 of the 146 people killed in domestic-related homicides in the state were men.



Since I can't access the paywall, I got this.


Can we start from here?




No, you were going on about Valkie, but in the OP there was this ...

"FATHERS are as much at risk of being the victims of prolonged intimidation and humiliation before being killed by their partners as women"
- NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research



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Reply #9 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 12:33pm
 
Bias_2012 wrote on Feb 25th, 2021 at 12:20pm:
Prime Minister for Canyons wrote on Feb 25th, 2021 at 11:36am:
Startling new figures from the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research say 61 of the 146 people killed in domestic-related homicides in the state were men.



Since I can't access the paywall, I got this.


Can we start from here?




No, you were going on about Valkie, but in the OP there was this ...

"FATHERS are as much at risk of being the victims of prolonged intimidation and humiliation before being killed by their partners as women"
- NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research






You're attributing it incorrectly. The NSW Bureau of Crime Stats didn't say that, the author of the piece said that
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Reply #10 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 12:55pm
 
[color=#00ffff][/color]men would be vastly under reported in terms of assaults .(as in being assaulted)

i read one study where women were more likely to hit their partner (because women do become more emotional) but because women hit with only 30 % of the upper body force of a man, they are very very unlikely to do damage (unless they hit the guy with an object).

so most guys are unscathed and a guy would probably be treated with mild amusement if he went to the cop shop and said that he had been assaulted by his woman and then produced the evidence (that being a little red mark on his arm  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes).

the reality is though, that men need to control their tempers much better as they have more capacity to cause damage.

a 4 month old kitten is way way more likely to bite you then a german sheppard.
but we still worry much more about the large predatory dog dont we
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Reply #11 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 1:03pm
 
i read one study where women were more likely to hit their partner (because women do become more emotional) but because women hit with only 30 % of the upper body force of a man, they are very very unlikely to do damage (unless they hit the guy with an object).



I read a study where people who say they read a study need to post the study otherwise they are talking crap
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Reply #12 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 1:07pm
 
The verbal aggression scale included shouting, screaming and insulting, while the physical aggression scale ranged from pushing and grabbing to beating, throwing things and using weapons.

Women were “significantly” more likely to be verbally and physically aggressive to their male partners than men were to women.

The women who were violent also displayed “controlling” behaviour, such as checking up on their partners and persuading them not to see particular friends, leading researchers to conclude that their violence was related to

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/women-more-likely-to-hit-their-partners-wx29q...
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Reply #13 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 1:09pm
 
Working in the mining industry.

I have seen many examples of " the victim woman"

The man, working long hours, comes home and has little time for banter and wishes only rest.

The woman, feeling insecure as she has nothing to contribute, becomes angry.

In good cases, she leaves, and the man often only has to pay to support children for the next 18 years.

In bad cases she punishes him by nagging, insulting, taking lovers and threatening him.
Rarely does she attack because it she that wants the bruises for evidence.

Once obtaining full control she ruins his life in the most vindictive way possible.

So me leave and hide, some commit suicide.

If the truth be known, more than half of DV is instigated and initiated by the woman.

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Reply #14 - Feb 25th, 2021 at 1:10pm
 
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GAINESVILLE, Fla. — Women are more likely than men to stalk, attack and psychologically abuse their partners, according to a University of Florida study that finds college women have a new view of the dating scene.

“We’re seeing women in relationships acting differently nowadays than we have in the past,” said Angela Gover, a UF criminologist who led the research. “The nature of criminality has been changing for females, and this change is reflected in intimate relationships as well.”

In a survey of 2,500 students at UF and the University of South Carolina between August and December 2005, more than a quarter (29 percent) reported physically assaulting their dates and 22 percent reported being the victims of attacks during the past year. Thirty-two percent of women reported being the perpetrators of this violence, compared with 24 percent of men. The students took selected liberal arts and sciences courses. Forty percent were men and 60 percent were women, reflecting the gender composition of these classes.

In a separate survey of 1,490 UF students, one quarter (25 percent) said they had been stalked during the past year and 7 percent reported engaging in stalking, of whom a majority (58 percent) were female.

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https://news.ufl.edu/archive/2006/07/women-more-likely-to-be-perpetrators-of-abu...
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