John Smith wrote on Feb 4
th, 2021 at 5:47pm:
greggerypeccary wrote on Feb 2
nd, 2021 at 6:49pm:
Thanks Carl.
There's no guarantee the operation will be a success and, I'm worried about the anaesthetic.
It's gonna be hard dropping her off at the hospital tomorrow morning (she has to go in for surgery at 6.30am).
Then, I have to go back and look after Dad who appears to be in his last days.
He's blind, deaf, and can't walk, and now doesn't seem to know who he is or where he is.
I'll make him some breakfast, give him his meds, and just pray mum makes it through the surgery.
Tomorrow ain't gonna be my best day.
And of course, I hope your aunt is okay.
Getting old sucks balls.
Sorry to hear all that Greg. I know what you're going through. I hope every thing works out for you and your parents.
Cheers John.
The surgery went well, and she survived the anaesthetic - they gave her an epidural to reduce the risk.
She's in intense pain today, however, and they can't find anything to relieve it.
Dad had a carer for four hours today, so I could get some work done. She said he slept most of the time.
I've just woken him up, taken him outside, and given him a beer (it's 4pm here).
I'll make him some dinner in a couple of hours and then go through the long slow process of getting him back in bed for the night - brushing teeth, toilet, medication, eye drops, etc.
It's like having a small child to look after again