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Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex
Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:23am

Conventional wisdom suggests that women are drawn to men who help out around the house. Yet new research indicates that some divisions of labor may be sexier than others. A February paper in the American Sociological Review reported that married couples in which men take on a greater share of the dishes, laundry and other traditionally female chores had sex less often than average, which in this study was about five times a month. Yet couples in which men confined themselves largely to traditionally male chores such as yard work enjoyed sex more frequently than average. Taken to the extreme, men who performed all the traditionally female chores would have had sex 1.6 times less often than men who did none of them. The study authors, from the Juan March Institute in Madrid and the University of Washington, arrived at the correlation by crunching data from the National Survey of Families and Households (NFSH), which gathered survey information from 4,500 U.S. married couples. The researchers ruled out any kind of coercion on the part of the “manly” chore-performing husbands by looking at data from the same survey on sexual satisfaction: they found that women from households with more traditional divisions of labor felt no less happy with their sex lives than women in more gender-neutral ones.

from the scientific american no less Grin

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

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aquascoot Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 32821 Gender:	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #1 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:24am sorry cods. women really like strong powerful assertive confident cocky men. they dont want a son who will be weak and subservient. their eggs crave the sperm of the alpha male
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AiA Gold Member Offline Posts: 18405 Gender:	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #2 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:28am Does your little filly get wet just watching you on the riding lawn mower, Aqua?
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Sir Spot of Borg Gold Member Offline WE ARE BORG Posts: 26460 Australia	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #3 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:28am Looks like some ppl are defensive about making their wives do all the work Spot
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AiA Gold Member Offline Posts: 18405 Gender:	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #4 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:30am Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:28am: Looks like some ppl are defensive about making their wives do all the work Spot Who in this thread is defensive?
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Sir Spot of Borg Gold Member Offline WE ARE BORG Posts: 26460 Australia	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #5 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:35am AiA wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:30am: Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:28am: Looks like some ppl are defensive about making their wives do all the work Spot Who in this thread is defensive? Aqua Spot
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AiA Gold Member Offline Posts: 18405 Gender:	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #6 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:38am Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:35am: AiA wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:30am: Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:28am: Looks like some ppl are defensive about making their wives do all the work Spot Who in this thread is defensive? Aqua Spot Fair point.
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Reply #7 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 6:09am

AiA wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:38am:

Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:35am:

AiA wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:30am:

Sir Spot of Borg wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:28am:

Looks like some ppl are defensive about making their wives do all the work

Spot

Who in this thread is defensive?

Aqua

Spot

Fair point.

Aqua is not being defensive

Aqua is pointing out that if you want to construct a relationship of awesomeness then it is important that you act in a strong powerful influential assertive and confident manor

By all means do housework
Personally I think women prefer to see men crush it in their working lives and then she gets to come along for the ride
Helping out around the house is fine but definitely not if you are doing it in a supplicating way

If you are doing housework to earn brownie points
If your basic frame is
Do you like me
Do you like me yet
How about now that I have done the vacuuming

Man that is so spineless and weak
That is just disgusting to a woman
Don't do that Wink

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Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex
Reply #8 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 7:24am

aquascoot wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 5:23am:

Conventional wisdom suggests that women are drawn to men who help out around the house. Yet new research indicates that some divisions of labor may be sexier than others. A February paper in the American Sociological Review reported that married couples in which men take on a greater share of the dishes, laundry and other traditionally female chores had sex less often than average, which in this study was about five times a month. Yet couples in which men confined themselves largely to traditionally male chores such as yard work enjoyed sex more frequently than average. Taken to the extreme, men who performed all the traditionally female chores would have had sex 1.6 times less often than men who did none of them. The study authors, from the Juan March Institute in Madrid and the University of Washington, arrived at the correlation by crunching data from the National Survey of Families and Households (NFSH), which gathered survey information from 4,500 U.S. married couples. The researchers ruled out any kind of coercion on the part of the “manly” chore-performing husbands by looking at data from the same survey on sexual satisfaction: they found that women from households with more traditional divisions of labor felt no less happy with their sex lives than women in more gender-neutral ones.

from the scientific american no less Grin

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

Must be because he's "too tired" or "has a headache".

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Valkie Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 16088 Central Coast Gender:	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #9 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 4:03pm Make a woman happy. Treat her like the love of your life. And you will have all the sex you can handle.
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Reply #10 - Oct 14^th, 2019 at 9:58pm

It's the pussified Muslim thing - be all you can be - a house servant, a spouse and a parent.... sometimes it extends to men as well.. the ones who refuse to do their man thing....

Links closely with the feminist thing of be all you can be and take the rest......

No wonder feminsm is closely allied to Islamism .. a surefire guarantee of de-balling Western men, since no Musso would dream of doing sheila's work... and both would be happy to cut the balls off the West.....

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Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex
Reply #11 - Oct 15^th, 2019 at 6:07am

Grappler Truth Teller Feller wrote on Oct 14^th, 2019 at 9:58pm:

It's the pussified Muslim thing - be all you can be - a house servant, a spouse and a parent.... sometimes it extends to men as well.. the ones who refuse to do their man thing....

Links closely with the feminist thing of be all you can be and take the rest......

No wonder feminsm is closely allied to Islamism .. a surefire guarantee of de-balling Western men, since no Musso would dream of doing sheila's work... and both would be happy to cut the balls off the West.....

The fascination of radical feminism with muslim extremism is understandable once you understand the underlying biological drives

Drives which have existed for tens of thousands of generations
These cannot be simply wiped away buy a couple of decades of propaganda

So the radical feminist has a problem
The only men who would be interested in a relationship of an intimate nature with the radical feminist would be the lefty intellectual males
The soft harmless overly intellectual stuck in their heads
Unable to let go and have fun serious virtue-signalling sort of guys
We have quite a few on this forum
They act as white knights towards the radical feminist
They supplicate and pander to the radical feminist
Obviously in the hope of sexual favours

But that's an enormous problem
A pandering and supplicating man is disgusting to a woman
So the leftie intellectual types only make the radical feminist more hateful of men
Paradoxical isn't it

But the Muslim extremist displays many of the behaviours which I deem to be very attractive to women

he has a lot of hair and so obviously a high testosterone
He condones the taking of sex slaves obviously proving his virility
He is a man on a mission
He has guiding principles and a North Star
Unlike so many men in the West who just wander around in a fog
With no real direction in life

The Muslim extremist bouncers out of bed empowered and fuelled in his desire to impose his will on the world
He is relentless
He is disciplined
He is assertive
He is a dominator
He does not apologize
He does not back pedal.

The fascination and desire of the radical feminist to be dominated by the Muslim extremist is exactly the same phenomenon as the fascination desire of the bored housewife to be dominated and satisfied by the sadomasochistic Christian grey
The dominator from 50 shades of grey
It's the same deep deep deep reptilian drives

If you fail to understand that you fail to understand people

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Valkie Gold Member Offline Australian Politics Posts: 16088 Central Coast Gender:	Re: Men who Do More Housework have Less Sex Reply #12 - Oct 15^th, 2019 at 5:11pm Bald men have a higher testosterone level than men with hair. The only sure fire way to keep your hair is to cut off your balls.
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Reply #13 - Oct 15^th, 2019 at 9:20pm

I babysat one of my neighbours' children whilst she slept off a heavy workday. I also did the washing up and some of the clean up, whilst the children watched television. The kids went off to bed, while the sun was going down. I sat on the lounge and dozed. Got laid that night by the lady of the house because I "was so sweet". Oh, she was a divorcee, by the way.

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Reply #14 - Oct 16^th, 2019 at 8:07am

UnSubRocky wrote on Oct 15^th, 2019 at 9:20pm:

I babysat one of my neighbours' children whilst she slept off a heavy workday. I also did the washing up and some of the clean up, whilst the children watched television. The kids went off to bed, while the sun was going down. I sat on the lounge and dozed. Got laid that night by the lady of the house because I "was so sweet". Oh, she was a divorcee, by the way.

You had an ulterior motive ....yes? Grin

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